Roc City Fringe Fest: Week Two

Here’s what I saw during the second week of the Rochester Fringe Festival! Check below for my thoughts and recommendations! 

Merged at the Geva Nextstage – “MERGED is a mix of premiere and repertory work by national/international dance artists James Hansen and Heather Roffe. This choreographic concert showcases a merging of visual art, theatre and text, melded with rich, visceral and physically exciting dance.” This performance was absolutely intoxicating. I loved everything about it. I loved the fun and distinct collection of music choices that visited a variety of genres and styles. I loved the simple yet elegant costumes that all worked so well on the dancers bodies and with the stories each dance told. I loved that each piece was strong and emotionally evocative and featured characters that really told a story that I could interpret in my own way, but all done through great dances. The pieces were beautiful and fun and original and sometimes funny (I love dance that surprises you by using humor well) and cutting-edge and thought-provoking. I was also really pleased with the quality of the choreography (something different in every piece) and style, and with the precision in the technique. All fabulous and beautiful dancers, but each dancer and dance also had a lot of personality. Definitely one of the most engaging dance concerts I have ever seen. Don’t miss this show. A+. 

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TriviaCity: An Arts and Culture Quiz at the Spiegelgarten – “Join host CITY NEWSPAPER for an arts, culture, and all-things-Rochester trivia night!” This was so much fun! I saw it the same evening I saw Merged – what a great night! My friend Shawnda and I teamed up for this event in the spiegelgarten, a parking lot downtown that was comfortably and lavishly decked out with relaxing outdoor lounge sofas, cocktail tables and bar stools, strings of romantic cafe lights, flame heaters set up throughout and, of course – the wood, mirror, velvet and stained glass spiegeltent from Europe. There was also beer, hot chocolate, and hot mulled wine available, which smelled heavenly. The atmosphere was great, and the trivia was a lot of fun as well. 6 rounds all about arts (theatre, Fringe, visual art), culture (media, news, music, movies, artists, etc.), and Rochester (famous Rochestarians, scandals, our arts and culture scene, Fringe Fest, etc.). We each got a free cozy t-shirt for participating, learned a lot of cool things about Rochester and the arts, and had a blast answering questions (we absolutely dominated the competition on the Rochester people round, but failed miserably at the Broadway and pop songs with a shared title round). Grab some mulled wine, a seat by the fire, a group of pals for a fun evening (and make sure Shawnda is on your team because she is a trivia goddess), and don’t miss this event next year either. A. 

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Sand Mandalas at the Geva Cafe – “Prepare to be mesmerized as Katie Jo Suddaby “paints” with thousands of tiny grains of sand. Katie Jo is the only Westerner using this ancient Tibetan technique to create delicate works of art from brightly colored sands.” She does beautiful work. Katie Jo was working on a gorgeous peacock when I stopped by. She explained how she got into it and told me about her week learning about sand painting technique from the monks, showed me the unique instruments from Tibet that she uses to do her sand paintings, and demonstrated on an “unpainted” section of glass how she can manipulate the instruments and the sand to make thin lines, heavy lines, soft images, etc. And I think it’s great that she recognizes and embraces that there’s beauty in impermanence – in art and in life. A. 

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Garth Fagan Dance at Garth Fagan Dance Studio – “Witness a performance by world-renowned Garth Fagan Dance up close and personal in the company’s downtown Rochester studios. Now in its 43rd season, Garth Fagan Dance is “unfailingly original,” deems the The New York Times. The dancers communicate with unbridled energy the depth, precision and grace of Tony-award-winning choreographer Garth Fagan’s work.” This company, its dancers, and choreography are like a celebration of strength, the beauty of the human body, and all the amazing things it can do. This was the most sculpted, in-shape, and strong group of dancers I have ever seen. They made everything look effortless. Garth Fagan did the choreography for The Lion King on Broadway, so the style of this company is a very specific style. I do have to say, these dancers can spin better than any other group I’ve ever seen. To me, this dance concert was more about body, self, and community than story, character, or personality. I enjoyed it and I think everyone should see them at least once, simply to be in awe of their strength and all the awesome things the body can do. A.

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The Joe Showers Show at Xerox Auditorium – “Join Joe Showers for an hour of things you’ve never seen before and won’t see ever again (unless you see his show twice!) Juggling is only the beginning of this ping-ponging, finger-tricking, hula-hooping, volleyballing show, filled with amazing tricks and hilarious jokes by one of Rochester’s most uniquely-talented individuals.” So, on the night I saw this show I learned that there’s about 300 more things I cannot do than I had previously thought. This guy has talent and he kept me entertained for the full hour his show lasted. I laughed at his jokes (cheesy jokes are wonderful) and was impressed with his tricks. He comes from a history of doing shows for kids and is branching out to perform for adult audiences now, so he’s in transition. He needs a little more practice but he’s definitely good and it was definitely enjoyable. B.

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Dupre on Krol at Gibbs Street Stage – “Dupre on Krol is a piano trio comprised of students from the Eastman School of Music. As a group, they strive to re-imagine songs from the American songbook in unconventional and compelling ways.” I only caught about 30 minutes of these guys’ show, but it was relaxing. I sat outside in the pretty, cool fall weather on a Friday afternoon beneath a tree, and I liked their sound. They didn’t jump out at me in any particularly special way, but they sounded very nice and I enjoyed their music. B.

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Swingin’ on a Star at Gibbs Street Stage – “Casey Jones Costello is back by popular demand, and he’ll power his way through Bing Crosby classics, transporting the audience to the golden era of song, and leaving the street swingin’ on a star.” Let’s start with the bad news and work our way up to the good news. I was really looking forward to this act because I love the Bing Crosby style of music, but the performance started 35 minutes late, so instead of 1 hour of music, we only got 25 minutes of music. I was sitting outside in the pretty, cool fall weather and was totally relaxed and enjoying myself in a great atmosphere – so a little annoying but not the end of the world. Turns out, Casey forgot his sheet music for his accompanist. But he owned up to it, let the audience know what was going on, apologized profusely, and kept a great sense of humor and great personality the whole time. And, honestly, who hasn’t done something dumb like that? We all have. No big deal because he kept us in the loop and handled it really well. I can totally deal with that. What was more frustrating was that the lighting and sound dudes assigned to this stage by the Fringe Fest, unfortunately, were clueless. The pianist and Casey both asked multiple times for the piano volume and monitor volume to be lowered….and nothing happened. The stage lights kept popping on and off at really awkward times…and nobody did anything about it. And some tech dude for the space kept pulling Casey offstage between songs to tell him timing stuff that, I’m sure, could have waited. All of which, sadly, detracted to his excellent performance (through no fault of his own). He is a wonderful singer and does a simply awesome job of singing Bing Crosby’s songs. I could have listened to him all night. Really, really wonderful voice and wonderful personality and, of course, fabulous music. A.

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The Turtle Play (The Play About the Turtle) at The Space – “Soon after Cedar’s husband prematurely passes, two tenants descend upon her home. One is her mother-in-law, whose memory troubles never erase her feelings toward Cedar. The second is new in town, bringing with him more than just physical baggage. The three spend the summer on the screen porch, learning which loves are worth holding on to. A new play written and directed by Rochester inhabitants.” I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I was intrigued by the description (plus I know the director of the piece and two of the actors in it – and I always like to support both new plays and young women in theatre). I liked this play because I never knew what was coming next. At intermission I was like “Where is this going to go!? I want to see more!” I had theories and they were totally wrong. I loved that there were unexpected plot twists. It absolutely kept my interest and kept me on my toes. I think all the actors put forth a good effort (though I really enjoyed the performance of two of the actors in particular). Plain and simple, I also just really liked the story. It was funny and smart, but also emotional and (mostly) genuine. I laughed and (almost) cried. I think the play could still use a little bit of shaping and a bit of reworking in the writing here and there, but overall, I totally enjoyed it and think it has nice potential. A. 

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Mikaela Davis at the Gibbs Street Stage – “This Indie harpist/singer-songwriter rocks major clubs all over the country.  Her 2012 CD was voted City Newspapers “Best Local Album”, and she just released her third.” I really like the unique combination of the harp and the voice – especially when it’s a little more indie-inspired in sound. Mikaela had two other band members that played instruments to fill out the songs, which was nice at time, but I often felt like the harp just got lost in the percussion and other sounds sometimes rather than it being the highlight. She had two songs in particular that I really, really enjoyed because of their unique sound and the way in which she used the harp. B.

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Get Cut Off at Xerox Auditorium – “Cut Off is an eight-member vocal band founded in the summer of 2010 by a group of young professionals based in Rochester, NY. Using only their voices, Cut Off gets audiences dancing to past and present hits from multiple musical genres.” Ted ran sound and live-mixed all eight performers’ levels for their performances at Xerox. He encouraged me not to miss this show because they’re really good. And they totally are. I had a great time listening to them. I love that their songs sound so full when only the human voice is used. They picked great songs to a cappella to, they sound great together (the percussion guy in particular does a fantastic job), and they’re just a fun group of passionate young professionals who sing really rockin’ a cappella in their spare time. What’s not to love? A.

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Total dollars spent: $10 (I paid the Fringe participant price of $5 for two of the shows I saw this week. Most of the other shows were free, but it pays to volunteer because A) it’s a nice thing to do, and B) there are occasional perks when you volunteer)

Next year don’t miss: Merged and TriviaCity and Get Cut Off plus my top picks from last week. Also, if you get a chance to see Casey Costello’s Swingin’ on a Star or The Turtle Play somewhere, I’d recommend them as well. 

Favorite venue so far: The George Eastman House and Xerox Auditorium are still great. Geva’s Nextstage is another wonderful, comfortable venue and Gibbs Street Stage is really lovely as long as the weather is nice.

Well, that wraps up my two weeks at the second annual Rochester Fringe Festival! The blessing and the curse of Fringe is that there’s so many wonderful performances out there to enjoy, but you just cannot possibly make it to everything. But still, 20 shows in 8 days for $10 is pretty darn good! What a beautiful celebration of the arts in our community! 

*Most photos via the Rochester Fringe Fest website. Also, I was not paid to share these thoughts and all opinions are my own. 

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Why Theatre Is Awesome

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Have I mentioned how much I adore my job? This theatre? Our mission? All the unbelievably cool stuff we do?

Oh.

I have?

Well, there’s not enough positivity floating around in this world, so you get to hear it again!

We do some pretty awesome stuff here. For real.

This season we’re on the front lines of developing and producing a whole lot of rockin’ regional and world premieres of fabulous new plays by excellent playwrights that already are, or are going to be, important pieces of theatre all across the nation within a year or two (keep your eyes peeled), and we’re also on the front lines of some pretty magnificent audience engagement programs for our patrons that really invite them into our creative process here at Geva and encourage them to take ownership of this theatre and all the artistry and other neat things that happen here. Theatre is connection. Theatre is community.

And to do both of these things, that means we need to get to know and work with these playwrights. Welcome them to Geva. Welcome them to Rochester. Show them all the great things about our city (of which there are many), do readings and workshops of their works for our patrons, get them out and about, invite them to be involved with the community, our staff, our patrons (including students), and make them honorary fellow Rochestarians. They get to know Rochester; Rochester gets to know them. Involve the playwright and patron directly in the creative process. Develop stellar new theatre. Produce stellar new theatre. Invite everyone along for the ride so they can see and be a part of and understand what we do from the inside out. Send stellar new theatre out into the world. Theatre is community.

So over the past few months we’ve had several of our playwrights visit us to do some readings and hang out with our staff and patrons at some of our favorite spots around Rochester. Last year we hosted Karen Zacarias (The Book Club Play). And this year we’re hosting Eric Coble (Stranded on Earth, The Velocity of Autumn), Mat Smart (13th of Paris, Tinker to Evers to Chance), Greg Kotis (Urinetown, All Your Questions Answered), John Cariani (Almost Maine, Last Gas, Love/Sick), and Deb Zoe Laufer (Sirens, End Days, Leveling Up, Informed Consent).

Aside from all the brilliant reasons why I love this (education, connection, community, creating powerful art, etc. etc.), I also love this because it means that I also get to hang out and engage with our patrons and our playwrights. Which is rad. Really.

Last spring I went to lunch with Karen Zacarias and a patron and we all had a wonderful time over delicious Italian food and enjoyed awesome conversation about books and theatre and our hobbies and why we love them. I feel a deeper connection to Karen as a playwright and to her plays, and I still see that patron at the theatre every now and then, who I really enjoyed getting to know, and it’s great to catch up with her and say hello. It’s nice to know our patrons by name.

Last week I went to Deb Laufer’s Author’s Voice reading event at the theatre, where she read scenes from three of her plays – SirensEnd Days, and Informed Consent – between a series of informal questions designed for us to get to know her, her works, her process, and her inspirations a little better.

The next day I went to lunch with both Greg Kotis and Deb Laufer, along with a fellow new staff member and two patrons. And we all had a ball. Seriously. We dined on delicious Mexican food (um, stuffed avocados are pure heaven, btw, and you should add them to your dinner menu immediately), and talked about animals, food, world travel, and theatre…four things I adore and could talk about for days. It was awesome and I learned so many interesting and fun things about both of our playwrights – as people and playwrights – and I learned a lot of neat things about our patrons as well. It was so wonderful! Really, one should never miss out on an opportunity to get to know someone (anyone! even a stranger) a little better. It’s makes the world a smaller place. Never stop learning. Never stop growing.

After lunch we stopped in at the Rochester Museum and Science Center to take a look around since science plays such a pivotal role in some of Deb’s plays, including Informed Consent – which we are premiering in the spring. We took turns on the earthquake simulator and hovercraft, goofed around in the beaver den and glacial cave, and played with some weather and energy related interactive exhibits. Also a ton of fun.

And now I feel like I know these guys just a little bit better. I’ve seen a few small glimpses of what makes them tick. I understand their sense of humor, see how some of the things they enjoy and their life experiences have influenced their plays, and I understand better than I did before what their process is like and what a playwright does, before, during and after their plays are written. The same with our patrons. I see them as open-hearted world travelers and passionate marathon lovers and intelligent, funny people who also happen to love the arts, coming to the theatre, and want to be a part of what we do here. And hopefully they all see me as a unique individual who is passionate about the theatre and all the many things I do as well. And we can all see and think of each other in a way that we never thought to before, and we can use that knowledge as we go forward.

And, together, when the playwright knows the patrons they’re writing for, and the patrons appreciate their playwright’s inspirations, and the staff understands both the patron and playwright, and the patron and playwright know the staffs’ personalities and passions for the work we do, beautiful things can happen. We’re all a part of this together. So why not get to know each other and be a part of this process together? Theatre is connection.

So, have I mentioned how much I adore my job? This theatre? Our mission? All the unbelievably cool stuff we do?

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It Doesn’t Take Much

Homemade popcorn, a game of marbles, the Packer game, a Packer win, family, Chili Johns, Pizza Ranch, a day to sleep in, a quick trip to Bay Beach for a snowcone and a ride on the the Zippin’ Pippin’ coaster = a successful trip to Green Bay.

It doesn’t take much :)

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Wasting Away the Day on Washington Island

Somehow, despite five years of annual Door County getaways, we’ve never left the mainland of the peninsula to venture out to Washington Island – though we always wanted to. So we made Washington Island our top priority this year. We took ourselves and the Cutlass across on the ferry and spent the day in island paradise.

This island. Oh my goodness. One small grocery store, one gas station, a performing arts center (obvs. they have their priorities in order), a post office, one k-12 school with 62 kids, lots of farmland, a farm museum, a gorgeous hand-built Scandinavian church, a maritime museum, an ice cream parlor, a handful of restaurants with Door County cherry pie and fish boils, a bowling alley, a pizza restaurant, two bars (one of which was still allowed to operate during prohibition because it specialized in bitters – medicinal in addition to alcoholic – making it the longest operating bar in the U.S.), a few B&Bs, a tiny nature and science center, a stunning limestone beach, sand dunes, moped rentals, a lookout tower, cows, turkeys, Iceland horses, cherry trees, and lavender fields. And that’s about it.

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{lavender gelato!? be still my heart!}

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{feeding turkeys! life = complete}

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{stunning church interior – I adore the stained glass and sailboat}

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{hard cherry apple cider and a hot freshly baked pretzel with Door County honey mustard}

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{fresh lawyers, lol}

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{where else is the Death’s Door gin gonna come from?}

Bliss!

We can’t wait to return in the future, and perhaps spend a whole weekend in paradise.

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Door County 2013

For most of you, this is old hat, but for anyone new(er) to my blog, Ted and I were married three Octobers ago up in Door County, Wisconsin. In a town with a sweet chapel and a population of 201, surrounded by water and absolutely zero chain stores, restaurants, anything. A destination wedding of sorts. We try to make it back to Door County once a year in September (timed around the Packers home opener game in Green Bay, of course) to celebrate our anniversary early, since we love this place so and it plays such a special role in our relationship.

There’s a pretty hefty handful of places we adore and always try to hit up every visit, but we obviously cannot make it to everything every year (because, duh, time and money). We were solely on a strict budget of birthday money for this trip – everything we spent in the Door was given to us for our birthdays with the instructions of “use this to have a wonderful time in Door County.”

So we have to prioritize and do some things some years and add others to our list for the next year. This year we chose to take the ferry over to Washington Island for the first time as our big Door County event (check the blog tomorrow for pics) and then spend the rest of the time strolling around on the mainland.

On the mainland, we scooped up bags of Door County chocolate covered cherries, cherry and lavender caramels, pecan brittle, cherry salsa, raspberry salsa, and Door County mustard at a few of our favorite farm markets (we were sure to send on some of the goodies to family back in Texas as well). And we drove with the convertible top down on the Cutlass, taking in the fresh lake air, start of the fall color, farmland, and other gorgeous sights along the way.

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Friday night Ted’s parents joined us in the Door for dinner at Summertime in Fish Creek (I had a baked potato, fresh green beans, and pan seared pork chops with apples, cinnamon, butter and bourbon!) and then we saw Miracle on South Division Street, directed by our good friend Kristine Thatcher, at Peninsula Player’s – Door County’s premiere professional Theatre. The show was excellent, relaxing, enjoyable and very funny. Lots of unexpected twists in the plot, loveable characters, and tons to laugh at. We loved the story and, as always, enjoyed seeing Kristine’s wonderful directing work. And the icing on the cake is that Peninsula Players has the world’s most epic location for a theatre – in a forest and right on the shores of a lake, so you can enjoy thick wooded walking trails, brilliant sunset views of the lake and waves crashing onto the shore, a huge nightly bonfire in their wooded lakeside fire pit, and beer in their forest beer garden before heading into their indoor/outdoor theatre with for some high quality entertainment. So wonderful.

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We breakfasted on Swedish meatballs, crepes, lingonberries, and whipped cream with a side of hot chocolate (I mean, really, look at that cup) at Al Johnson’s “Goats on the Roof” – our favorite Swedish Restaurant and Butik with a grass roof where goats live and graze. This place also has lake views, in addition to the fab food and goats, so it’s pretty much the best.

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We browsed our favorite shops in Fish Creek and indulged in fresh cherry gelato too.

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And, of course, we HAD to do a fish boil. Our usual fish boil place – Square Rigger in Jacksonport – was, unfortunately, closed for the season, so we tried Pellitiers instead, which was tasty and spectacular too. You just can’t beat buttery salted freshly caught whitefish, potatoes and onions boiled over an open fire with coleslaw and a slice of Seaquist Orchard fresh Door County cherry pie. Picking the bones out of those suckers is a pain in the butt, but they’re so delicious that it’s totally worth it.

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Then, there’s always the gorgeous Door County sunsets over the pier and, this time (for a rare treat), inexplicably friendly hummingbirds that allowed us to put our hands up under their feet and hold them while they fed and their wings zoomed. It was so cool.

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Til next time sweet Door!

Up next: Washington Island!

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Roc City Fringe Fest: Week One

Here’s what I saw at the Rochester Fringe Festival on Thursday-Sunday! Check below for my thoughts and recommendations! 

Mariah Maloney Dance at Xerox Auditorium – “Partially inspired by a sparkler dance that her father performed for her while living in an Alaskan cabin with no electricity, LIGHT features MMD’s professional dancers clad in LED costumes – this charming engagement with formalism in post-modern dance will literally light up your life!” I love dance and had really been looking forward to this, but I had mixed feelings about the performance. I was totally enchanted and transported by the evocative music selections that accompanied the dancers in the second half of the show, but the music and choreography in the first 20 minutes felt shallow and without vision and passion. There were two solo dances in the middle that were particularly moving and they were the clear highlight of the performance for me. I wasn’t super impressed with the construction of the LED costumes, which were only in a portion of the show. And I felt like I saw the same choreography repeatedly, but the dancers had lovely technique and all did a fine job. Altogether, I was hoping for more. C.

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Cello Show at Java’s – “What do you get when you combine six saucy lady-cellists, a slick drummer, and a sock-rocking vocalist? The answer is: a show of epic proportions only attainable through the juicy sound of a pop-cello group.” Despite their small and crowded venue (a college hotspot coffee shop), starting over 20 minutes late because they all showed up late and had to fight through the crowds with their giant cellos, and a vocalist that, even with a mic, was difficult to hear over the sounds of a noisy coffee shop, I really enjoyed this free performance. These fierce ladies are good at what they do and have a nice sound. The cello is such a cool instrument and their vibe worked nicely with a bustling coffee shop when mixed with a warm beverage and a relaxing window seat on which to people watch. B. 

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Bandaloop at Washington Square Park/Xerox – “A pioneer in vertical dance movement, the San Francisco company turns the dance floor on its side by seamlessly weaving together dynamic physicality, intricate choreography and the art of climbing. BANDALOOP performs in theatres and museums as well as on skyscrapers, bridges, billboards, historical sites and natural wonders all over the world.” These guys dance vertically on skyscrapers…hundreds of feet in the air. I mean, that’s just plain rad. Really, it’s very cool and they certainly can do some neat tricks and dance moves. But I saw them last year too, so the wonder and awe has worn off a bit for me. I also think it’s a little strange that Fringe chose to bring them back as a headliner for the second year in a row. Once was awesome, but it would have been nice to see something different this year. B.

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TheatreRocs Showcase at Xerox Auditorium – “The TheatreROCS Showcase will provide a living collage of dynamic talent hosted by two of Rochester’s most beloved personalities:  Kasha Davis and Aggy Dune. See previews from Rochester theatres’ upcoming seasons as well as teasers for TheatreROCS Stage at Xerox Fringe shows to come.” Hosted by Rochester’s two biggest personalities – a hilarious and big-hearted duo of glamorous drag performers – this performance offered preview snippets of several upcoming shows from various theatres within the Rochester theatre community. I really enjoyed some of the performances and was less thrilled by others. But everyone was passionate about celebrating and sharing live theatre within this community, which was the most important thing. And it was great to see previews of what’s coming up this season! Highlights were definitely jokes from Kasha and Aggy, music from The Last Five Years and several improv songs based upon topics of the audience’s choosing. B.

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A Thousand Dreams Within Me Softly Burn at George Eastman House – ” The evocative capabilities of the harp are unlimited: at once graceful and dreamy, then fearsome and imposing. This concert uses this power of the harp to transport audiences to the realm of dreams and nightmares through the pairing of acoustic harp music with visual art.” This collaboration between a harpist and local visual artist was awesome. The visuals were almost illusion-like and one thing sort of flowed into another, so each image could be seen as several different things. They were probably 30+ drawings, and the harp music that accompanied it went from soft and dreamy to bold, plucky and nightmarish, showcasing a full range of emotions on the harp to mirror the visual art. Really cool. The venue was intimate and visually interesting, but very tiny. But I think 30-45 minutes would have been an ideal performance time, rather than a hour. A. 

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Human Library at Eastman School of Music – “The Human Library is a mobile library set up as a space for education, dialogue and interaction. Visitors to a Human Library are given the opportunity to speak informally with “people on loan,” who represent a variety of backgrounds and with whom participants might not easily get the chance to engage in an open conversation. This innovative method designed to promote dialogue, reduce prejudices and encourage understanding has been part of many festivals all over the world.” This was phenomenal. There were 18 “books” (people each with a unique story to share that are sometimes faced with stereotype or prejudice) and you could check out a “book” (person) of your choosing at the circulation desk for a 30 minute conversation about who they are, their history, and worldview. You could ask them any question and, even if you don’t subscribe to that worldview, you could have respectful discourse with someone you might otherwise never have had an opprtunity to speak to. An incredible way to break down barriers and learn more about the world and people in it. Books included a vegan activist, homeless single mom turned PHD student, a high school teacher going through a gender change, a Hijab-wearing Muslim woman, a refugee from Sudan, a couple battling anorexia together, etc. It was just way beyond super awesome. A+.

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Dangerous Signs at The Little Cafe – “DANGEROUS SIGNS uses a mix of spoken and sign language poetry to create pieces that are comedic, serious, musical or tell a story.” Students from RIT’s National Technological Institute for the Deaf make up this theatre/poetry/creative movement group. They use sign language along with spoken word, movement and song to tell stories, poetry, and current events. I saw it last year too and I really love what they do. It’s wonderful that the worlds of the theatre, music, and poetry can be shared with everyone. B. 

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Divas Our Way at Xerox Auditorium – “BIG WIGS is a high-energy, Las Vegas-style show featuring Kasha Davis and Aggy Dune, who bring their dead-on impressions to sold-out crowds everywhere. The fast-paced DIVAS OUR WAY includes all of your favorites:  Cher, Tina Turner, Celine Dion, Liza Minnelli, Lady Gaga, Bette Midler and many more.” Amazing. Seriously fabulous. Hilarious. Glamorous. Spot on. Highly entertaining. I enjoyed every single minute of these talented “ladies” (it’s drag) diva show. Don’t miss it….really. A+

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Surround Sound at The Little Cafe – “Surround Sound is RIT’s first and only all-male barbershop group. They specialize in the nearly forgotten art of barbershop music is what sets them apart from the rest. Their music takes advantage of the natural strengths of the human voice, incorporating complex chord structures and glowing harmonics to produce a full, rich sound, even without amplification.” These dudes were stellar. It was fun and uplifting and nostalgic. They sounded so great together and it put a huge smile on my face. I really love the barbershop style and they did not disappoint. They could pack a little more punch on their consonants, but it was a blissful way to spend a cool autumn Sunday afternoon. A.

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Proof of Purchase at The Little Cafe – “Proof of Purchase is the Rochester Institute of Technology’s premier and only co-ed a cappella group. Affectionately known as POP, Proof of Purchase combines the ethereal qualities of the female voice with a strong foundation of male vocals.” I enjoyed this a cappella group too. Their tunes were more contemporary and they added in some percussion with their voices as well. They had a lot of passion and produced a full, vibrant sound. It would be nice if they established more of a dress-code for their members (it just helps pull the look of the group together nicely) and some of their songs could use a bit of cleaning up around the edges, but they did sound really great together. B. 

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Total dollars spent: $0 (Most of the shows were free, but it pays to volunteer because A) it’s a nice thing to do, and B) there are occasional perks)

Next week you need to see: Divas our Way at the Xerox Auditorium! Bring your friends for a fun night out!

Next year don’t miss: The Human Library and Surround Sound

Favorite venue so far: The George Eastman House is an awesome, intimate and visually appealing venue (arrive super early!) but Xerox Auditorium can seat lots of folks comfortably, has a lot of different shows on rotation, and is selling delicious brownies (an obvious plus).

Looking forward to seeing next week: A Man A Magic A Music and Merged both at Geva’s Nextstage, Swingin’ on a Star and Mikaela Davis at the Gibbs Street stage, Get Cut Off at Xerox Auditorium, and the Spiegeltent! Among other things…

*All photos via the Rochester Fringe Fest website. Also, I was not paid to share these thoughts and all opinions are my own. 

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So, I’m Back

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Hi Friends,

So clearly I’ve been away and then ultra-busy following my return. Everybody understands how busy it can get before you leave for vacation with planning, packing, running errands, readying the house, and tying up loose ends at home and at work, and everyone also understands how busy it gets when you come back from vacation with unpacking, laundry, grocery shopping, and catching up at work. But it’s always interesting how busy the actual vacation itself can be as well. All of that should explain my week-long absence from the blogosphere. So thanks for your patience while I sort through it all!

I’ve got plans for a fun lineup of posts for you all next week, but until then, I’m just checking in to let you know that our little annual ‘Sconnie’ getaway was great, lots of neat things are happening around here at Geva and in Rochester in general as fall sets in, and we’re still alive and ticking. Rochester’s second annual Fringe Festival starts today, which means both Ted and I will be pretty wrapped up with plenty of fun and interesting stuff on the theatre scene all weekend long, but I’ve definitely got some time carved out to settle back into my blogging routine again and fill you in.

In the meanwhile, I hope you all had an enjoyable week and that you plan to take advantage of the pretty fall weather this weekend to get out there and do something fun, fallish, and festive…or to simply unwind at home and enjoy the relaxation. :)

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More to come soon…

Lara

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The Weekend According to my iPhone

ZooBrew Friday night…

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Saturday’s dreary rain showers, morning haircut/shampoo/conditioning/style session via a Living Social deal, free birthday venti soy vanilla chai latte with caramel from Starbucks, and hours spent stringing delicate cafe lights across an expansive 14th floor ballroom with awesome views of downtown Rochester while helping my dear, funny, pals over at Writers & Books set up for their 1920s Paris themed Ernest Hemmingway gala (yay for artsy non-profits!) apparently weren’t interesting enough to document via iPhone…so…

Representing Geva at the awesome Clothesline Arts Festival and a morning spent browsing the Memorial Art Gallery on Sunday…

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And Sunday night’s NFL football games, showing of Better Off Dead (which I am pleased to report has gotten no less funny than it was a decade ago when I last watched it), amazing homemade goat and white cheddar mac n’ cheese (a serious rival to my beloved Macarollin’), and lollipops…

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Childfree by Choice, or ‘There’s nothing wrong with me!’

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Last month Time Magazine ran this somewhat controversial article – “The Childfree Life: Having It All Without Having Children.”

This article is important to me.

Let me be clear: It’s not perfect. There are flaws – some things not considered, some thoughts not fully explored, some viewpoints and ideas not fully expressed, and I truly don’t believe that anyone ever really ‘has it all’ – with or without children.

There are pros and cons to every decision, to every lifestyle. There’s nothing wrong with having kids. There’s nothing wrong with not having kids. They both have their pros and cons. I feel this needs to be made abundantly clear.

But I am glad to see this article hit the mainstream, and I applaud the intentions of this article for bringing awareness to the fact that there are people who actually choose not to have children for many reasons, and that doesn’t mean that they are infertile or unable to have children, don’t contribute positively to society, or are heartless, utterly selfish, hate children, not good people, or are any less of a woman or man for their choice.

Because I’ve found, from my own personal experience (and, disclaimer, my life experiences will be different from other people’s life experiences, and that’s perfectly okay!), that as soon as you get married people expect you to pop out babies. The questions about when you are going to have kids start instantly. Like it’s a requirement, an expectation, instead of an option. And if your answer just so happens to be “We don’t think we want kids,” women (and men too, but I’m a woman so I will speak from a woman’s perspective) are often (not always, but often) met with disapproving silence, looks, commentary, inappropriate questions, doubt (whether intentional, unintentional, well-meaning, or not), or flat out dismissive remarks along the lines of “oh, you’ll change your mind in a few years.” And maybe we will. It’s possible. But maybe we won’t. That’s possible too. And either way, our choice is valid. Women/men/couples should not be treated as if their private decisions regarding the choice to raise children or not are unacceptable, especially if, whatever their decisions are, they come from a place of love, reason, thoughtfulness, and good intention.

Everyone is absolutely entitled to their own opinion, and I think contrasting views that open the door to healthy, informative, and respectful dialogue that allows us all to hear and appreciate alternate perspectives that differ from our own, leading us to a better understanding of ourselves and others, is a great byproduct of an important conversation like this one. I am open to learning and growing and sharing my thoughts, and also hearing someone else’s equally-as-valid thoughts. Which is why I also think it’s important to take a glance at these articles below, all responses to the Time Magazine article above, some I agree with and some I don’t, but all of which I appreciate because they open up the conversation. There are many more out there, I’m sure, but this is simply the small handful I came across.

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My hope is that, in the future, people might simply consider asking a woman/man/couple if they plan to have children rather than ‘when’ and that, whatever their answer may be, responses can be offered and reciprocated with an open mind and respect in contributing agreements or different perspectives, so that we can move forward, continuing to share and grow, as individuals and as a caring and accepting society. After all, it takes all kinds in this world. :)

In short, people who choose not to have children are not freaks. Amen.

(And neither is anyone else for their decision to have children or not, for that matter)

Also, 23 Things You Should Never Say to a Childfree Woman, for what it’s worth…;) I think most childfree women/men/couples will agree and (probably) invite healthy conversations, honest questions, and the sharing of insights…assuming those thoughts aren’t disguised as insults or phrased quite like the ones above. ;) A little tact goes a long way!

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Things to Love this Friday Afternoon

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The black and white Oreo truffle balls I made for book club last night (meeting #2 for The Night Circus – check out my post for meeting #1 here).

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{Not all of us, but it’ll do. We’re a festive bunch of cool, smart, laid back, food drink and book lovin’ people. You should join us!}

We’re going to ZooBrew tonight and I AM SO EXCITED. Cool fall weather, live music, an evening stroll through the zoo to love on the animals (for me, obvs), and beer (mostly for Ted). All the ingredients for a perfect date night. Yesss.

Is theatre the ultimate brain fitness product? – Duh.

Moms, when are you going to learn? – I’m not a mom, but I totally love this. I think there’s a lesson in it for all of us, actually.

Alaska town roots for feline mayor attacked by dog – I’m rooting for you too Mayor Stubbs! I love everything about this article and this town and this cat (except for the poor kitty’s attack, obvs). Also, you should totally ‘like’ Mayor Stubbs facebook page for sweet pics, funny posts, and updates from the Mayor himself on his condition.

9 questions about Syria you were too embarrassed to ask – This is a great article. Short, helpful, understandable, real, conversational, and generally informative if you want to get up to speed.

Turning chaos into theatre with a cast of 200 – “Do you know how that feels, to be a part of something that is a community?” THIS is why we do theatre.

Also, this is me.

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Have a great weekend!

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