Cuties

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Hello Cutie ;-)

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It’s clementine season!! I eat at least three a day…they are SO GOOD this year.

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And I wouldn’t cry if I had to sip my tea out of one of these cuties. You know, if the “L” one just accidentally happened to fall off an Anthropologie shelf and into my possession. It wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. Just sayin’.

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Oh, the cuteness! I am slain by cuteness overload! Ahhhhhhh!!!

What’s that you say?

You got the otters?

For me?

You shouldn’t have!

(Yes, you really, really should. Because I need them.)

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Epic Fail Friday: Location Edition

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Alaskan dark chocolate, fresh from New Jersey!

This was on a candy bar we bought in Juneau to munch on while honeymooning in Alaska.

Except we didn’t get around to munching on it until just yesterday.

But it is an authentic, Alaska original!

I think we actually read the label before purchasing it and thought it was pretty funny, so weren’t blindsided by the ugly truth.

Psshht.

Alaskan dark chocolate.

Made in New Jersey.

Oh, humanity.

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Ladies Who Lunch

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I can think of few things more divine than a weekday lunch date with girlfriends.

Except perhaps a post-audition weekday lunch date downtown at Tom & Chee with a fellow actress/blogger/Texan girlfriend when we’re both all gussied up and looking stylishly fab in our dresses, hued tights, pretty scarves, and fancy winter coats.

I can’t speak for Allyson, but dresses and tights are not in my typical repertoire of daily garb, so it kind of special to don something a little more snazzy than my standard uniform of jeans, a v-neck tee, a cardigan, and snow boots.

Anyhow, before we were even friends we both scheduled an audition with the same company, for the same day, and at nearly the same time. As fate would so-slyly have it, we met, became friends, and discovered the happy coincidence.

Neither of us died and/or barfed at the audition, and neither of us horrified our auditioners or traumatized ourselves out of the industry, so I’d call that a success. As any actor will tell you, auditions are hit or miss. You may think you stunk something awful and be elated to discover you were cast, or you may have seriously rocked it out but just weren’t what they were looking for. Only time will tell.

Nonetheless, we celebrated our attempts by re-feeding our outrageously overpriced downtown parking meters, bundling up in our warmest ware and walking a few blocks down and over to Tom & Chee, which as the name implies, specializes in gourmet grilled cheese and tomato soup. I’m a Groupon/Living Social fiend, so naturally, I’d come well-prepared with a half-price voucher. And on this blustery day, tomato soup and grilled cheese was the comfort food of champions.

I spent about a year contemplating the menu. Luckily we had about the nicest red-headed kid in the whole entire world at the counter, who not only put up with my indecisive shenanigans, but was also funny and sweet. He told us all about the menu and gave excellent recommendations to boot. That kid deserves a serious raise, as does anyone who works in customer service and deals with the crap people dish out all day. Anyhow, after much indecision over Gouda v. brie, and rye v. sourdough, and pesto v. hummus, and turkey v. bacon, and chunky tomato basil v. creamy tomato basil, a decision was made.

Allyson went with a tasty classic – a three cheese on wheat with chunky tomato basil soup.

(You can always tell a blogger, taking pictures of food.)

And I absolutely could not contain my intrigue and ordered the grilled cheese donut with a side of chunky tomato basil soup. Yes, grilled cheese donut. Hot, melty cheddar and mozzarella cheese goodness smothered between the halves of a steaming, sweet, glazed donut.

I’ll give you a minute to process that.

Okay.

Some of you are likely intrigued, as I was. Some of you are likely beyond disgusted. And the rest of you are probably clutching at your swollen arteries as you recoil in horror and cry out for a defibrillator. These are all appropriate responses.

As insanely unhealthy as this is (Oh, and it is. Just add bacon and you’ve got yourself a one-way ticket to cardiac arrest), I truly could not help myself. I like new experiences and I love discovering new foods. It was going to happen sooner or later, so might as well, right? And it was delicious. That sweet & salty combination gets me every time. The soup hit the spot too. Next time (because at that cheap-o price of $6 for $12 worth of food, you better believe I wasn’t going to buy just one half price deal. After all, my next date – Ted – loves grilled cheese just as much as I do  and I know a good deal when I see one) I’ll likely be indulging in a gouda or brie grilled cheese with hummus and pesto on sourdough. If only they offered avocado as a topping (Are you listening Tom & Chee?). We wined and dined (okay, we didn’t wine, but I think we both wished we could have) and dished and it was wonderful.

And then we both went back to work. Like working girls do. And promised to do this again, soon.

When was your last lunch date?

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When Pigs Fly

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Riviera Palm Springs Resort, as seen on a very tempting Groupon getaway deal.

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Electric blue lobster, as seen at our very tempting pet store.

Dear Pigs,

Get moving.

Sincerely,

Fly Dammit Or It’s Not In The Cards

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Perspective

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Some things in life mean more than others.

Family.

It’s hard to be happy, but I am thankful that Grandpa is back with Grandma once again, where he truly wants to be.

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The 3 C’s

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So yesterday after I pulled myself together from the epic “working outside in subzero temps” debacle of 2012 and got over my raging, though kind of unfounded (in retrospect, of course) anger, I had a lovely evening. I met my friend Allyson for the opening night performance of Henry VIII: All Is True at Cincinnati Shakespeare Company. We both thoroughly enjoyed the show and the ladies’ costumes were to die for! This Shakespeare history play is a must see, especially if you’re a history buff or, you know, just obsessed with Henry and his litany of wives like I am. Especially that sly Anne Boleyn – what a sneak! It was a very nice evening at the theatre with a good friend, despite the bitter cold and snow. And this morning between a theatre workshop engagement and my shift at the museum I met Ted for a lunch date, which is always a welcome (and tasty) way to sneak in some time with the dude.

But onto what’s really been tossing around in my head lately:

Courage
Confidence
Comparing

I’ve been reflecting on some things lately, especially now that I’m really pushing myself back into acting and applying for full time professional theatre jobs instead of four theatre part-timers. I think courage, confidence, and comparing are three things I’ve struggled with for a while, at least since college. But this year I’m making a concerted effort to be more courageous in the face of things that scare me – like driving in the snow and on potentially icy roads, auditioning at equity houses, teaching theatre to very young children who are not in the age range I most often work with, and applying for the good theatre jobs that I really want, even though I fear rejection. I’ve done all four of these things already in 2012 and I like how it feels, how I’m already less afraid now than before because I’ve had some practice. It hasn’t been easy and it’s still a struggle, but having courage feels good.

I am also working to build up my confidence, because I think somewhere along the way I might have lost it. Theatre is a business of rejection – we all know that. Lots and lots of “no’s” before you finally get your “yes”. Maybe once upon a time I got hurt by the “no’s” or maybe I got used to being around super talented people all the time and since I was so young and still learning, I feared that I wasn’t one of them. But I am. I can be. Of only I start trusting myself again, and believing in my talents and skills again, and putting myself out here again – this time armed with the knowledge that “no” isn’t bad and I shouldn’t let “no” diminish my confidence or make me forget all the cool things I have already accomplished or still want to do. “No” is just “You did your best and there’s something even better out there for you. You just haven’t found it yet.”

It took me years to reach this point, but I am so relieved that I can honestly say that I am no longer hurt or offended or embarrassed by “no” because I believe that it brings me one step closer to the right job or the right part for me, which is what I really want. Not being your own worst critic or so hard on yourself feels mighty fine!

And that brings me to comparing. In the past three years I have had the privilege of working with the cream of the theatre crop. Ungodly talented and incredibly kind directors, actors, and administrators that I looked up to, learned from, and am grateful to have friended. Being around such talented, funny, and good-hearted people is wonderful, but also a little daunting, and the competition can be terrifying. So this year, in addition to being courageous enough to confidentially do the things that scare me, I’m going to work on being more fair to myself and not comparing my talents or achievements to the talents or achievements of others. I’m good at some things and others are good at other things. End of story. There really is no way to fairly compare something so abstract, so I’m just not going to compare anymore. I can only compare my work to my work, and so I will stick with that.

And I have a sneaking suspicion that these 3 C’s just might work hand-in-hand. Without the comparison nonsense I will feel more confident in my abilities, and the more confident I feel, the more easily it comes to be courageous and defeat my own fears. And who doesn’t want to befriend or work with or hire someone like that?

I’m really excited to feel the effects of positive change this year! Between these and my other resolutions (see my previous posts for more on that!) I’m hoping for a joyful 2012. It won’t be without its trials, I’m sure, but I can only control me and how I face those trials. And so that’s what I will work on.

How was your Friday night? Have you had any deep thoughts or revelations lately?

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The January Blues

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The snow and I, we’re over.

I’m done.

Today, with a windchill of zero and blowing snow, I had to work outside.

And it was just as awful as I dreaded it would be.

I was unbearably cold, and somehow the cold gives people license to act utterly stupid and lose all semblance of common sense. It’s like their brains just fell out.

And then I got mad…

And oh was I MAD.

Then in a fit of anger I broke a nail and zipped my neck skin up in my coat zipper

Then I was PISSED.

Annnnnd it’s STILL cold and STILL snowing and people are STILL driving and acting like morons and I’m STILL mad and I CLEARLY was not meant to live in places where the temperature drops below twenty.

Over. It.

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I Spoke Too Soon

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Do you remember my last post?

You know, the one about all the wonderful things I dream of doing when the warm weather comes?

Where I mentioned how lovely and mild of a winter we’ve had this year with only one day of snow?

Yeah, that one.

JINX.

Today’s forecast from this afternoon until tomorrow evening? Snow, ice, and black ice.

Yeehaw.

Good riddance cozy comfort and my ability to navigate the roads safely.

If I were one of those wives with a doctor husband who rakes in the big cash so she can stay home all day long snoozing, gathering blog sponsors, purchasing a new J. Crew wardrobe online, pinning crafts on Pinterest, making said crafts, adding them to her Etsy store, and then baking cupcakes (Whew! Hard knock life, eh?) then this would be A-okay by me. I’d have all the time in the world to stay home and keep on keeping on. Perhaps I’d even go a little wild and add “watch pretty snowflakes fall” or “make snow angel” to my already exhausting daily agenda.

Turns out, I’m not this woman.

I know. I’ll give you a moment to let that shock sink in.

Moment over.

Turns out, I work four jobs, all of which are conveniently located all the way across town from each other and where we live. Turns out, I’m expected to show up so the children of Cincinnati aren’t galavanting about, unsupervised, on Vine Street. Instead they can just galavant around our classroom, pretending to be unsupervised (they most certainly are not), while I remind them for the umpteenth time why I am apologetically yet utterly incapable of teaching them rap and hip hop (as if this needs explanation) and why our musical theatre number will not be to the tune of “Whip My Hair” by Willow Smith.

Turns out, I sometimes have to be out and about when the weather takes a turn for the worse.

Please don’t misunderstand.

I like the snow. I like watching snowflakes fall while bundled up in a cozy sweater, sipping tea. I like going on quiet winter wonderland walks and stomping in fresh powder with my snow boots. I love shoving my husband into a snow banks and having snowfall fights. Snow itself isn’t all that bad.

Ice, however, is a bad, bad thing in this Texan’s book.

And I do not like driving in the crap.

Mostly because I do not know how to drive in this crap.

All this is to say…

…I spoke too soon.

Because, apparently, my days of farmers marketing are a long ways off.

:-(

P.S. I want this mug! Always have, always will. Add hot water and the wives disappear, as they oh-so-coveniently did when they found themselves in hot water once upon a time. This tickles my little history-fiend soul.

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Spring Fever

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Despite the fact that we’ve enjoyed a very mild winter in Cincy this year with only one day of snow, I’m desperate for some warm weather! Yesterday as I drove across town to teach a creative drama class the sun was shining warm and bright and it was a mild 50 degrees outside. I couldn’t help imagining all the wonderful things I am anxious to dive into when it warms up.

– Selecting fresh eggs, cheese, fruits and veggies from the farmer’s market

– Blueberry and blackberry picking

– Long biking trips through wooded trails

– Days off to explore all the sweet little towns scattered throughout Ohio

– Dips in the pool

– Lawn games like washers in the soft, green grass out back

– Disc golf and rollar blading at the many, many gorgeous nearby parks

– Late nights and greasy eats at the drive-in theatre

– Scoops of Graeter’s ice cream

– Naps in the sunshine

– Trips to Coney Island, Cedar Point, King’s Island, and Soak City amusement and water parks

– BBQ hot off the grill

– Star-gazing on warm summer nights

– Bare feet and pretty sun dresses

– Devouring good books while cacooned in the hammock

– Cooking up lots of new recipes, tasty dishes, and pies from fresh, seasonal ingredients

– Re-planting my veggie and herb garden

– A gentle breeze, a waft of SPF, and the tinkling of wind chimes

– Frivolous little bakery dates

– Mini vacays to catch up with friends and family

– Driving in the Oldsmobile Cutlass with the roof down

Mmmm…so much to look forward to!!

What summery goodies are you patiently looking forward to?

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Resolutions

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Friend:  So, what are your New Years resolutions this year?

Me: I was actually going to blog about that today, but then I didn’t want to get out my iPad at work and type it all in, so I thought a post about my awesome paper wig would be sufficient.

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There’s nothing like a good friend to hold you accountable.

I did make a list of attainable aspirations this year. I figure there’s no sense in listing an endless litany of lofty goals that I will only feel disappointed about when they don’t happen, so I stuck to the realistic this year – stuff we can, and want, to make happen. Then I took a look at that list and realized I could divide all my goals into 5 action-driven keys words. And the system made sense to me, and I felt excited about my goals, not overwhelmed.

So my words for 2012 are…play, save, give, strive, and fit.

And here’s a quick run-down of what I’m geared up to accomplish in 2012:

  • Secure a good full-time professional theatre job, or even two part-time theatre jobs (just not four, please, not four). So far I’ve been able to do this every year since I graduated college…I’ve been so lucky! I’m hoping this luck holds out for me!
  • Design and launch my professional portfolio and website for acting and theatre education
  • Act in at least one play and one musical this year. I seriously need to get back into this!
  • Finish up getting the last of my EMC points and finally go union by joining the Actor’s Equity Association (woo!!)
  • Get back into dancing by taking tap, ballet, and rhythm & motion classes
  • Design a Blurb photo book for our time living in Cincy
  • Revamp the ol’ blog
  • Journal five things every day that I am thankful for
  • Donate or volunteer at least six times this year – more if I can possibly make it happen!
  • Engage my social side a little more often than…well, never…by making a point to go out with my friends at least once a month (I’m surprisingly bad at this)
  • Take some trips this year: one to see my family, one to see Ted’s family, and two trips just for us – one will be a weekend in Door County for our wedding anniversary, and the other will, hopefully, be to somewhere a little more exotic!
  • Get our affairs in order. This includes our wills, powers of attorney, medical release forms, retirement accounts, insurances and all that grown-up mumbo-jumbo that we really should have figured out by now.
  • Add appropriate amounts to our retirement savings account, 6-month emergency living expenses saving account, and trip savings account. I suppose starting the last two accounts would be a good first step.
  • Get back into exercising when it gets a bit warmer out (we don’t have bikes and roller blades for nothing!) and maintain my weight (basically, I just need to stay the hell out of The Bonbonerie bakery and I’ll be good to go).
I’m happy with this list. I feel like they’re all achievable and will all have a positive impact on my life. And the list is a nice mix of all the disciplines: financial, career oriented, spiritual, self improvement, and making time for each other, the family and friends that I care about, and also making time for the things that bring me joy in life.
What are your aspirations for the new year?


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