Well, This Is New

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I gave blood for the first time yesterday.

I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. And it was uncomfortable. And it did hurt, though I had an excellent phlebotomist who was funny, calming, and took great care of me when, as soon as the needle was removed, I developed a tingling/burning sensation all over my body, and instantly got really overheated and nauseous. He was also dressed as the grim reaper.

No, really.

Last year the theatre was doing Dracula during the annual blood drive (which also happens to be within a week of Halloween and takes place at a theatre, of all perfect places), so the Red Cross folks dressed up as vampires to collect blood. This year in anticipation of Halloween and – it’s a stretch but it kind of works – with our current production of Freud’s Last Session, they came dressed up as grim reapers and the like. I bet they look forward to the blood drive at the theatre every year. I love people with a sense of humor. Nothing cuts the tension or nerves quite like a grim reaper asking you personal health questions.

I told them next year they should dress as mosquitoes.

But 45 minutes of rest, a few cold compresses, and about 8 cookies later, I survived and feel great knowing my blood will hopefully be a lifesaver to somebody in need.

Donate blood. Do it.

PSA complete.

And last night Sandy made landfall. 24 years living in Texas, mere hours from the Gulf….and nothing. Less than 2 months living mere hours from the east coast…and bam! Hurricane.

Alas, Sandy is nothing if not punctual. Just as forecast, the wind and rain started in at promptly 5 p.m on Monday. But between some hot Vietnamese pho for dinner with a friend, apple cider and rum, some sea salt dark chocolate, autumn scented candles, relaxing music, a cozy blanket, and a great book…I was all set for a night in while the storms raged outside.

It could always be worse. You just gotta be thankful it’s not.

:)

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If Only This Weekend Were Every Day

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1. – 6. These are a few of my favorite eats! YES. It happened. All of it. The gyro and tzatziki pizza from Mac’s, the red dragon roll and veggie fried rice from Hibachi Master, the sweetest, densest and most epic Belgium waffles in existence from Taste of Belgium (courtesy of best friend Allyson who, literally, smothered me in hugs and kisses when I walked in…it was the best thing ever!), unfiltered pomegranate hibiscus ginger ale from the new Jungle Jim’s at Eastgate (a total foodie’s paradise! I could live in their olive bar), garlic rosemary fries from Smashburger, and a fresh pizza and out-of-this-world harvest salad from Dewey’s. It was, indeed, a weekend of magnificent food. Every. Last. Morsel. I’m drooling just thinking about it.

7. & 8. I would like to point out that gas in Cincinnati is $2.99….that would be $1.04 per gallon cheaper than what I’ve been paying. I die. Really. I’m half flabbergasted and half bitter. I can’t even think straight. That’s $14.56 cheaper per tank. I’ll let that soak in while my heart shrinks two sizes – a la Grinch. Also, the Buick hit 160,000 miles somewhere along the 20 hours and 1,200 miles I drove this weekend. In the rain. Thanks, Mother Nature.

9. & 10. Can you even believe that these two pork chops are Gigi and Ace!? They’re enormous! And loveable and hungry and snippy and skeptical and everything crays are supposed to be. I love them.

Weekend = excellent. But then again, any time spent with the one you love, no matter how much or how little, always is. No mugs of us this time around, sorry folks. :/ Apparently it’s obvious where my priorities lie…

I’m counting down the days until this (uh, less the horrific quantity of utterly unhealthy food) is our daily norm again.

Soon.

And until then, there’s always hope.

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Where Thunder Comes From

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Taste of Belgium waffles, Smashburger rosemary garlic fries, Dewey’s harvest salad, Mac’s gyro pizza, Pho Lang Thang’s Banh Mi Thit Nuong, and Hibachi Master sushi, fried rice, and ginger seaweed salad….

Happening. Soon.

JOY.

Bring on the thunder thighs!!

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A Season of Love

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1. & 2. – Unwinding beach-side on a chilly Friday afternoon.

3. & 4. – Public market goods; fresh healthy apples and an epic chocolate doughnut…an ideal combination.

5. & 6. – Pumpkin carving party goodness. Love those guts! Have you ever seen such dedication? Stencils, X-Acto knives, measuring implements…

7. & 8. – What’s a pumpkin carving party without a menu full of autumn treats? Pumpkin mac n’ cheese, apples with homemade caramel dip, chicken and beet salad, pumpkin cheesecake brownies, sparkling apple cider pound cake, pumpkin chocolate chip bread, spiced hummus….

9. & 10. – Crockpot apple cider with cinnamon sticks, cloves and oranges (and maybe a shot of spiced rum – if you insist) and the new best way to carve a pumpkin…cookie cutters!

11. & 12. – Jack-o-lantern success! Someone’s front porch is gonna look mighty fine this Halloween! Would you believe that Emelyn and Raymond are first-time-ever pumpkin carvers!? Not too bad for a first try. Every stairwell should be so lucky!

13. & 14. – A little bit of fall; A little bit of winter.

15. & 16. – The fire tree!

17. & 18. – My roomie and I – our after-work run through the park turned into a bit of a fall love-fest. Needless to say, it wasn’t quite as run-centric as we’d planned when we set out.

19. & 20. – Also, we may or may not have borrowed a few branches of leaves from the fire tree to turn into a fall centerpiece for the kitchen table. Do they look out of place in the elevator? No? We didn’t think so either.

21. & 22. – Monday night sushi date with my friend Kristen – seaweed salad, volcano roll, jasmine tea, and great company…perfection!

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The Kindness of Strangers

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Over the past seven weeks I have been privy to an outpouring of kindness I can only describe as welcoming, humbling, and heartwarming. Being new to a place is never easy. Being new to many new things and many big changes all at once is never easy. But I think I’ve been very fortunate to have met so many kind people in such a short amount of time, and especially at a time when a little bit of friendliness can really go a long way.

The people I work with have just been, hands down, exceptionally fantastic. A few will, and already have, become good friends. On Saturday morning two sweet friends from work selflessly volunteered to give up their Saturday morning to help me with the notoriously un-fun task of moving…and we knocked the whole shebang out in an hour and fifteen minutes then went for brunch at a local diner to celebrate. I went to a new church Sunday morning, was instantly recognized as someone new by the young adults coordinator and she made a point to find me right away, welcome me warmly, and sit and chat with me for a few minutes. A guy on an elevator in my new skyrise apartment saw me struggling with a heavy basket full of stuff and he asked if he could carry it to my apartment for me. Another woman at a different church downtown has emailed me several times a week just to check in on me, invite me to things, and see if I need anything. Strangers on the street make eye contact and actually say hello. One of my new friends started as a work contact who emailed me one day and invited me to dinner because she knew how hard it must be to be new. Since then she’s been my date to opening night this weekend, we email a few time a week, and have more dinner and theatre date plans for next week. I also have fun plans with two more awesome girls I happened to meet who were kind enough to strike up a conversation with me. My new roommate has totally gone out of her way to make things comfortable and welcoming! And these are only a few examples. Grateful doesn’t even begin to describe it!

In other news, while Saturday was all about the moving (and the autumn baking!), Sunday was all about sleeping in, trying out another new church, soft pretzels and warm beer cheese while watching the Packer game at my favorite bar (love Sunday football!!!), gorgeous sunny windy fall weather that blows and swirls colored leaves all over the roads (beautiful driving weather!), and a pumpkin carving party and fall potluck with some new friends.

What have you been thankful for lately?

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Two

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I like you and I know why.
I like you because you are a good person to like.
I like you because when I tell you something special, you know it’s special,
And you remember it a long, long time.
You say, Remember when you told me something special?
And both of us remember.


When I think something is important,
You think it’s important too.
We have good ideas.
When I say something funny, you laugh.
I think I’m funny and you think I’m funny too.
Hah-hah!

I like you because you know where I’m ticklish,
And you don’t tickle me there except just a little tiny bit sometimes.
But if you do, then I know where to tickle you too.
You know how to be silly;
That’s why I like you.
Boy are you ever silly!
I never met anybody sillier than me till I met you.

I like you because you know when it’s time to stop being silly.
Maybe day after tomorrow,
Maybe never.
Too late, it’s a quarter past silly!


Sometimes we don’t say a word.
We snurkle under fences;
We spy secret places.
If I am a goofus on the roofus hollering my head off,
You are one too.
If I pretend I am drowning, you pretend you are saving me.
If I am getting ready to pop a paper bag,
then you are getting ready to jump.
HOORAY!

That’s because you really like me.
You really like me, don’t you?
And I really like you back.
And you like me back and I like you back,
And that’s the way we keep on going every day.


If you go away, then I go away too.
Or if I stay home, you send me a postcard.
You don’t just say, Well see you around sometime, bye.
I like you a lot because of that.
If I go away, I send you a postcard too.
And I like you because if we go away together,
And if we are in Grand Central Station,
And if I get lost,
Then you are the one that is yelling for me.

And I like you because when I am feeling sad,
You don’t always cheer me up right away.
Sometimes it is better to be sad.
You can’t stand the others being so googly and gaggly every single minute.
You want to think about things;
It takes time.

I like you because if I am mad at you,
Then you are mad at me too.
It’s awful when the other person isn’t.
They are so nice and hoo-hoo you could just about punch them in the nose.

I like you because if I think I am going to throw up,
Then you are really sorry.
You don’t just pretend you are busy looking at the birdies and all that.
You say, Maybe it was something you ate.
You say, The same thing happened to me one time.
And the same thing did.

If you find two four-leaf clovers, you give me one.
If I find four, I give you two.
If we only find three, we keep on looking.
Sometimes we have good luck, and sometimes we don’t.

If I break my arm, and if you break your arm too,
Then it’s fun to have a broken arm.
I tell you about mine, you tell me about yours.
We are both sorry.
We write our names and draw pictures.
We show everybody and they wish they had a broken arm too.

I like you because I don’t know why but
Everything that happens is nicer with you.
I can’t remember when I didn’t like you.
It must have been lonesome then.

I like you because because because…
I forget why I like you but I do.
So many reasons.
On the 4th of July I like you because it’s the 4th of July.
On the fifth of July, I like you too.
If you and I had some drums and some horns and some horses,
If we had some hats and some flags and some fire engines,
We could be a HOLIDAY.
We could be a CELEBRATION.
We could be a WHOLE PARADE.
See what I mean?

Even if it was the 999th of July,
Even if it was August,
Even if it was way down at the bottom of November,
Even if it was no place particular in January,
I would go on choosing you.
And you would go on choosing me.
Over and over again.
That’s how it would happen every time.
I don’t know why.
I guess I don’t know why I really like you.
Why do I like you?
I guess I just like you.

I guess I just like you because I like you.

“I Like You” by Sandol Stoddard

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Happy 2 year anniversary!

You are my greatest blessing, deepest pride, and most brilliant joy.

I am honored to be your wife.

To many more days like these…

…and nights like these…

….and everything in between.

I love you for now and for always.

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Things Familiar

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Yesterday I was smacked with an anxiety I haven’t felt in a few weeks – an overwhelming desire for something comfortable and familiar.

I suddenly craved an evening with Ted at The Outpost in Lansing, MI – the log cabin bar we used to frequent alone or with cast and our coworkers over three years ago, after working a long day of shows at the theatre. It had cold beer, fantastic pizza that I still get a hankering for, and a rustic casual atmosphere that we loved. It was also our first date. I would have given anything to be there again with Ted last night. Comfortable, relaxed, at home.

I also craved the one thing in this wild world full of changes that seemed the most familiar to me over the past four months – a beach. All summer while teaching at Blue Lake Fine Arts Camp I was just a 15-minute drive from the beach. Whenever I wanted, I’d finish my last choreography session or rehearsal of the day, grab a good book, throw on my suit and some sunglasses, hop in the car, roll down the windows, and just GO. I liked the sound of the water lapping, the sun and the sand and the seagulls. I liked the peace and the feeling of being so small. Isn’t it crazy how everything has changed so much in the past four months that the most comforting and familiar place I can think of is a beach I called home for only 6 short weeks? So after work I got in the car and just drove until I was at a beach. As soon as I stepped out of the car there was an instant feeling of relief – I could breathe again. And all I wanted was to be sitting on a blanket on this beach, wrapped in a cozy sweatshirt, beside a hand-built bonfire in the sand, roasting s’mores with my friends.

It’s not that I don’t love it here…because I do. Sometimes, like we all do from time to time, I just miss the things that helped make me who I am. The things that are familiar and make me feel comfortable and content.

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Dreaming

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I think I’d like to go on vacation…..to Vermont.

And then Arizona.

With the husband of course.

Yes, that would do just nicely.

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Down on the Farm

I have healthy obsession with fall. On Saturday the leaves were ablaze with color, the weather forecast called for the perfect amount of fall bluster, and I’d painstakingly researched, compared, and hunted down the most spectacular fall farm within a two-hour radius (complete with spreadsheet, y’all. I don’t mess around), so I decreed Saturday my own personal day of Fall Fest goodness.

I like to think it all started like this:

  • Diagnosis: Fall Deprivation.
  • Cause: 24 years of living in Texas where we have two seasons – “summer” and “almost summer.”
  • Symptoms: Addiction to sweaters and participating in an unrealistic amount of fall activities, cooing over orange or red leaves like they are small children, taking pictures of said leaves like they are small children, stockpiling pumpkins, and using pumpkin or apple cider in every recipe.
  • Cure: Move to a state with four seasons, and indulge in symptoms until they gradually decrease in intensity or subside in another 24 years.

The trees were nearing their peak color, it was in the high 40s and windy, the sun was shining, and I had my boots on and a hankering for some pumpkins, apple cider, and a little adventure. I’d waited patiently all week and when Saturday morning finally rolled around, I was ready for Fall fest 2012.

I choose Stokoe Farms as the lucky winner of my own personal day of autumn jubilee. Why? Well…

And I think we all know how I feel about petting farm animals, ziplines, corn mazes, pick-your-own-from-the-vine pumpkin patches, slides, wagon rides, and fresh spiced cider and doughnuts.

The farm was about a 30 minute drive from home. As a side note, I love that I can drive less than 15 minutes and be in the country surrounded by corn, horses, and meadows. I also love that I can drive 10 minutes and be in the city, 20 minutes and be at the beach, 40 minutes and be in wine country, 1.5 hours and be at the falls, and 2 hours and be in the mountains. Not too shabby.

Pulling up to the farm this was my view – autumn-hued leaves, a pumpkin patch, and Christmas trees all in one view…heaven!

Obviously, the day needed to start with a fresh apple cider doughnut before I could do any real exploring.

Up next were the animals!

ALPACAS!!! I love alpacas. Remind me to tell you about the time a pen full of alpacas escaped during Boerne Market Days and were running wild down Main Street. Perhaps this has something to do with my love of alpacas?
Sweet baby chicks
I don’t remember what this bunny-looking guy is (not a jackrabbit) but he was so sweet and sleepy. His name is Pip. No, I did not name him. Yes, he had a name before I got there.
Baaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
This dude has it made.
The emus, “John” and “Deere” hoping for treats :)
Turkey!
Chow time for goats

Not pictured are the piglets and the yak. After I had my fill of animal lovin’ (or at least once I decided to let other people have a turn with the animals, because, really, I could love on animals all day long and be a happy camper) I moved on to the fun and games.

Log walkin’
Sliding
Ziplining
Wheel racing
Tractor-karting
Pumpkin launching

Yeah, it was awesome.

I took a break to enjoy the scenery, collect some baby pumps, and eat a caramel-apple snack before the adventuring resumed.

Have I ever mentioned how much I love corn mazes? Especially corn mazes with a quest (you know, other than to find your way out…), like when they do “Barnyard Clue” and you have to find six clues hidden in the maze who discover “whodunit” or when you discover a secret playground in a clearing in the middle of the maze, or when you have to find five finger-painting stations in the maze to determine your silly assignment. I’m a sucker and a schmuck.

With the maze conquered and all five finger-painting stations miraculously found, it was time for the crown jewel of the autumn season – the pumpkin patch!

The pictures are only a mere sampling. The pick-your-own patch was huge! I took home a real beauty of a pumpkin (and, uh, an ear of corn I plucked from the corn maze), perfect for the pumpkin carving and subsequent seed roasting party & fall potluck next weekend!

And because the party can’t end at 3, I took off to my second adventure of the day…a winery tour and tasting at Casa Larga Vineyards! I fully intend to enjoy the fact that I live in wine country. From the get-go this authentic Italian vineyard looked quality. It totally was. Count me impressed. I would definitely bring family and friends to this winery when they come for a visit (so come visit!). It boasts a beautiful country setting overlooking the gorgeous vineyard, the winery tour was excellent – far more informative than other wine tours I have been on – and the wines were definitely top quality…and absolutely tasted so! Delicious!

Vineyard
Beautiful juicy grapes…the grapes in this region are fantastic and taste incredible…unlike any other grape I’ve had before.
Mmmm, wine.

Most impressive was their ice wine…a true ice wine made of vidal grapes that are frozen on the vine for up to a week then picked and harvested in the dead of a cold winter’s night. It was phenomenal. Casa Larga’s ice wine won the best ice wine in the world award. A well deserved honor. They even make a red ice wine, which is especially rare. You better believe a bottle or two of that ice wine is on my Christmas list!

And finally, I took the pretty road home :)

Hope you all are making the most of your fall!

It goes by so fast…enjoy it while you can :)

And happy football season (Go Pack!)

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Festive Fall Fasions

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I love alliteration. Duh.

If some kind angel were to gift me $500 to spend on the basics of a fall/winter/early spring wardrobe of very much needed cold-weather, work-appropriate clothing I would be forever grateful because this Texas girl doesn’t own hardly any work-appropriate, cold-weather clothes, so I’m gonna be a little cold and/or naked for the next 6 months stock up on the following fall and winter goodies (not these exact ones, per say, but something of the kind…):

Fleece-lined tights. Yup, those are indeed stirrups.

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Cable-knit sweater tights

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Tall brown boots to wear with jeans, pants, skirts, and dresses

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Ivory scarf – matches everything

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Gray cords

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Red pants – for a splash of color with all those neutrals

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Brown leather bomber jacket

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Cozy fall dresses I can dress up with heels and a blazer, or down with boots and tights.

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Cable sweater skirts – warm, cozy, stylish, and wear-to-work friendly

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Sweaters, yup. Warm and work and weekend friendly. Sweaters are perfection.

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A little bit of sparkle for holiday parties

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And Essie nail polish in Gym Dandy, a perfect neutral fall shade.

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Dear Winter Clothing Angel….please visit soon.

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