Craybies

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There’s a little secret we’ve been keeping.

When we lost Maverick two weeks ago, she was carrying eggs. All the experts told us they were infertile duds, likely laid out of stress from poor water conditions due to cycling or a common per-cursor to her biannual spring molt.

I didn’t believe them.

Crays can technically be pregnant for 6-9 months before actually releasing their eggs. Plus, the eggs were black, and black eggs means fertile eggs. And Mav was continuing to hold on to them beneath her tail, protecting them with mamma instincts, despite the fungus that engulfed them.

And I’m just an incredibly, intensely hopeful person.

But then, as often happens with mamma crays, her developing eggs caught a fungal infection that encased them in a cocoon of cotton candy pink fluff and killed the eggs.  We added anti-fungal meds to her water. Meds that were supposed to be safe for her tank’s biological filter…but apparently aren’t. They jump started another cycle, and between the second bout of ammonia spiking and a case of shell rot that she caught early on, Mav was unable to molt her shell and likely died from a combination of those few factors. We assumed the fungus, while not lethal to her, had killed off all of her supposedly dud eggs.

The morning after she died we still couldn’t bring ourselves to remove her from the tank, because the thought of her tank being empty was simply heartbreaking and, well, just in case she was sleeping or still mid-molt (incredibly, intensely hopeful, remember?). Ted just happened to be looking at her, resting so still and peacefully beneath her favorite rock, when he saw the slightest bit of movement, and then a small patch of remaining black eggs closest to her body, hidden underneath her tail and untouched by the fungus, burst. And over a dozen tiny, microscopic little baby crays floated down. So small you could hardly see them without a magnifying glass. So small that eight of them could have fit onto one piece of gravel. So tiny that they disappeared instantly and you wondered if you were just imagining them. So small, yet so perfectly formed, just like their mamma.

And while we miss girlfriend a whole awful lot, these little guys are nothing if not absolute miracles.

A little hope can go a long way.

Four!

We were told not to get our hopes up. Up to 400 can be born at once, with perhaps only a dozen or so surviving. Craybies have to survive a molt within the first 24-hours of hatching, grow a hard shell, not eat or pick one another to death, make it the first 48-hours without their mamma (they should have mamma for the first 2 days before mamma gets moved to another tank, but ours weren’t so lucky), and survive the high ammonia and nitrite levels that were still plaguing our tank from the second nitrogen cycle the meds started.

Given that all the odds were against them, we’ve tried not to get our hopes up, especially since sweet Mav is still fresh on our minds. But, honestly, we are outright amazed at their strength. But of course, they take after Mav – the bravest, strongest little cray ever. They’re little but resilient! And we’re so happy to still have little pieces of Maverick that remind us of her every single day.

I wasn’t going to write about them just yet, just in case they didn’t make it. But as Ted said, “Why not? They’re a part of our life. And the blog documents our life – the good things and the not so good things.” And he’s right (he usually is). These little ones are definitely a good thing, so we should celebrate and share them.

We never really got an exact count on how many of them they were. It was impossible. They are, after all, smaller than a mustard seed and insanely difficult to locate in a tank full of gravel – especially when they start out microscopically tiny and see-through – so light blue that they’re practically translucent with just a touch of brown (their deep blue color won’t develop for a while yet). On day 2 we counted 15 of them. There could have been more, who knows.

Last night we counted 13 out and about. And they’re growing! It’s hard to believe, but they really are getting bigger by the day. Take it from the people who spend 2 hours a day with their noses plastered against a fish tank, staring at baby crays.

And man, are they fun to watch! They swim backwards, flail their long antennas and skinny legs, scale strings of dust collecting alongside the walls of the tank, hide in the plants spying and playing and climbing, clamor over and on top of each other, perch atop the rock like little kings, and for a while there we were still are plucking them out of the filter at least once a day en route to escape…and because they’re so tiny that the water currents just blow them around the tank like leaves in the wind – which is kind of hilarious to watch but also kind of pitiful and “awwww!” inducing too. The water current causes them to do all kinds of neat flips before they get sucked into the filter, which consequently means they require daily rescuing. Troublemakers though they may be, they sure are cute!

Yup, they’re every inch (all 1/4″ of them) of Mav’s babies – strong willed and sneaky – just like Mav. Their mamma would be SO proud.

We are proud.

World, meet craybies! Names forthcoming :-)

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Memorial Monday

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Run Around

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This has been one BUSY week for me! I’ve been updating cover letters and resumes and applying for jobs like a fiend, designing a 25-page study guide/teacher toolkit for the 2012-2013 education programs for the dance company I freelance with, filling out a book worth of contracts and miscellaneous paperwork in preparation for my summer gig, scheduling out my calendar for all my show, family/vacation, and job commitments for the summer, starting to plan for the choreography and scenes I’ll be directing, thinking about the selection of songs/monologues/scenes I’ll be performing and, of course, still working three jobs.

But the opportunities that are, opportunely, starting to crop up are super exciting, we’ve been getting free meals that I don’t have to cook every single night this week at the on-campus dining halls (some of Ted’s students trying desperately to get rid of hundreds of unused meal trade swipes before they expire next week….oh, college! I remember those days well. And now I am thankful to be on the receiving end of them.), and I have Monday off….a precious day off with which to go biking and swim in the pool and sleep in and sample tasty delicacies at the annual Taste of Cincinnati Festival!

I hope to have a more inspired and less mind-numbingly dull post for you in the coming days.

Meanwhile, what are your big plans for the three-day weekend?

P.S. The high tomorrow is supposed to be 100! In Cincinnati…in May. Texas, is that you? I don’t remember clicking my heels three times and chanting “there’s no place like home.”

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Thanks and a Mission

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I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has called, sent a text, email, or message with condolences for Mav. While it’s been a rough week and we still feel sadness often, we are blessed to have many happy, funny memories with Maverick and wonderful family who have brightened our day just by reaching out to say something kind. We really, really appreciate the thoughtfulness and love. Whether it’s a dog or cat you’ve had for 12 years or a crayfish you’ve had for two months, losing a pet is never easy. Period. So, thank you all for reaching out with your support.

Also, if you send us a package of any kind in the future that is too large to fit into a small mailbox, please send it direct (to be left for pickup at the post office) or certified (requiring a signature). In the past two months we’ve had two packages disappear off our doorstep after being confirmed as delivered by the carriers. Needless to say, we’re starting to get suspicious of drive-by snatchers and/or our utterly and unbelievably obnoxious and sketchy hooligan neighbors…and also a little tired of filing claims and opening investigations and having to get all our purchases reshipped to us (thank goodness for insurance). So, if you’re in the habit of mailing us boxes, please remember to send them direct or certified.

That being said, and on a much brighter note, summer has officially rolled into Cincinnati and we’re starting to take advantage of it. The kids are winding down at school, stores are stocked with shorts and swimwear, watermelons, peaches, strawberries and rhubarb are cropping up at the farmers market, two of my four jobs will expire in less than two weeks (leaving me with much more free time and much less income), temperatures have started climbing to the mid-80s, and I saw my first firefly two nights ago – the most telltale sign of all!

I’ll be gone for six weeks this summer teaching acting and musical theatre at a professional fine arts summer camp up in Michigan by the lake (Surprise! More to come on that later!), so that leaves Ted and I with about a month and a half to enjoy all the adventures on my “Summer 2012 Bucket List” together.

Yesterday Ted cleaned up our bikes and we went for a nice, long ride through the neighborhood and through the cemetery to see Mav. It was great to have the bikes out again…I’ve missed Carmela! And of course we already went on the Subway Tour, gallivanted around Eden Park, rode the pedal wagon on the Bikes & Barons tour, and picked up fresh green beans and rhubarb at Findlay Market.

Still on my bucket list for this summer are a remake of the fabulous Le Cordon Bleu Fruit Torte I made last summer, blueberry and blackberry picking at Rooster’s Farm again, more farmer’s market goodness, a cookout on our grill in the backyard, lawn games, catch fireflies in a mason jar, a day trip up to Columbus for the Zoo, Cosi Museum, and North Market, spend some quality time sunning and splashing at the pool, making lots of fresh and tasty summer recipes, a trip to the aquarium, catching a few late night double features at the drive-in, seeing a performance of the World Choir Games (which are being held in Cincinnati this year!), ziplining, bowling, a picnic in the park with lots of wine and cheese, taking the bikes out on the Bass Island Trail for a day trip, getting new headshots, the American Sign Museum, a Reds baseball game, canoeing, the church carnival, some 4th of July fireworks, the rest of the Cincy Haus American Legacy Tours (Haunted Cincinnati, Rookwood Pottery & Wine, Newport Gangster, and Cincinnati Civil War), and some amusement park and roller coaster fun at Coney Island, Kings Island, and either Cedar Point or Michigan Adventure.

That’s A LOT of fun to cram into 45 days when you still gotta work and pack and prep lesson plans and choreography and be poor because you work on a theatre salary. But it can be done…and it will be done!

Operation Summer 2012 Bucket List….GO!

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Bikes and Biergartens

On Saturday we drove a 15-person electric pedal bike.

A wagon bike hybrid with 15 seats and 15 sets of pedals that is supposed to be pedaled by 15 people.

It can be used for tours, weddings, proms, funerals, bat mitzvahs, birthdays, pub crawls, etc. Think of it like the newer, trendier trolley. It’s only in a few U.S. cities so far – Las Vegas, New Orleans, Newport Kentucky….

Only, we were the only two who signed up for the earliest “Bikes & Barons” tour from Cincy Haus’ “historically entertaining” American Legacy Tours company that Saturday morning, so it was pedaled by 4 people instead of 15. Two tour guides and ourselves on a totally personal tour.

It was kind of awesome.

We pedaled through the beautiful, quiet, tree-lined streets of the historic mansion district of Newport, enjoying the architecture of the mansions and learning all about the wealthy steel barons and entrepreneur millionaires of the 1800s, and all their antics. We came upon a little girl selling lemonade in her front yard. Our tour guide hopped off to treat us to a cup of lemonade as we pedaled along. It was very relaxing and sweet and lovely.

After the tour we stopped at one of Newport’s most popular destinations (another place I’ve been aching to try since we moved here) to split a plate of hot, soft pretzels with beer cheese  and a bratwurst with sauerkraut from The Hofbrauhaus in Newport – a fantastic authentic German biergarten and restaurant established and (still) maintained by brew masters in Munich who come over twice a year to keep an eye on the beers they brew there and German eats they dish up. It’s a fun place with lots of spirit and good German music and festive biergarten atmosphere and massive mugs of beer and bench style seating with long wooden tables and leiderhosen and dirndls and really tasty German food. I can’t wait to come back with a group of friends for a fun night out.

Another great Saturday morning under the belt. We’re on a roll here – two weeks in a row. Though after the hell that was this week, I kind of think a beautiful, fun, relaxing Saturday morning was very much needed to re-focus my mind.

Also, if you ever get the chance to try Cincinnat’s Street Pops (a portable street food cart that sells gourmet popsicles), the hibiscus mint mojito popsicle is absolutely heavenly! They were in the lobby of Ensemble Theatre of Cincinnati during intermission of Life Could Be a Dream on Friday night giving out complimentary popsicles to drum up business. Popsicles should be sold during the intermission of all happy, upbeat musicals. It’s a perfect combination.

So, in conclusion…15-person bike wagon = awesome, Haufbrauhaus biergarten = awesome, free hibiscus mint mojito popsicles = awesome, Life Could Be a Dream = awesome, Ted = awesome, Mav = still terribly, terribly missed. When does this get any easier?

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To Maverick, With Love

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“God, your ways are wonderful, but sometimes they’re miserable because I am man and you are God. You hold the key. And that’s just the deal.”

– Misty Edwards

We lost our sweet Mav on Wednesday and buried her beneath the shade of a leafy green tree by a pretty, quiet pond near our home on Friday morning.

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It’s been a heartbreaking, tough week.

We really grew to love that cray.

She was a part of our family.

Our happy, little family of three.

But all we can do is be proud of how amazing she was, and how hard she fought, and be thankful for the time we had with her.

And think that God’s one damn lucky guy because he gets to hang out with the Mavie now.

It was our turn for a wonderful, happy time, but now it’s his.

But he holds the key. And that’s just the deal.

We love you for always Maverick and we’re so proud of you little girl.

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We miss you.

Love,

Mom & Dad

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What’s Not to Love?

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From Sancho (and my mom) on Mothers Day.

They crack me up!

Girl date this week was at the 1215 Wine Bar, again.

Because, apparently, we just can’t get enough of that place.

9 half-glasses of wine (3 flights), a selection of gourmet cheeses, fine meats, bruschetta, truffle oil, lemon olive oil, rock salt, toast, dipping bread, and two great girlfriends.

What’s not to love?

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One Fine Day

Our epic FirstSaturdayOffSince2011 Day of Merriment and Excellence began as all classic Saturdays should, luxuriously sleeping in until  8 a.m. (my teenage self is gasping in horror right now) and homemade blueberry pancakes.

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Shortly thereafter we eagerly booked it downtown with our required flashlights and sturdy waterproof shoes for a rare and highly sought after Cincinnati Museum Center Heritage Program tour of Cincinnati’s abandoned underground subway and mass transit tunnels that we’ve been anxiously stalking for well over a year and, thanks to a fantastic Christmas present from my parents, we were lucky enough to book back in February, on the very day the tour was released for public ticket sales. The tour runs only one day a year and usually sells out instantly, with a mile long waiting list.

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Long story short the water canal that used to connect Cincinnati to other major Ohio cities like Toledo, Cleveland, and Columbus in the late 1800s was drained, dug out, and turned into an underground subway system in the 1920s. But about halfway through the project, the city ran out of money and the concrete tunnels were never completed. One of the stations, it is rumored, was going to be outfitted with gorgeous tile from Cincinnati’s famous Rookwood Pottery, and the tunnels were very well built. They were built to impress and they were built to last. My blog post from last February gives you a little more detailed info about it, if you’re interested. The above ground stations were torn down during the construction of I-75, but the underground stations still remain intact. In the 1960s the Liberty Street station was installed with electricity, a telephone, flushing toilets, bunk beds, basic kitchens, and a supply of food and water so that it could serve as a nuclear fallout shelter. And in the early 2000s the city spent $6 million (the exact amount it would have taken to finish the subway back in 1928) to structurally restore it and install a 52″ water main in it to supply the west side of Cincinnati with water. And though many proposals have been presented over the years for how to revive the tunnels and make them useful again, none of the options have been viable enough to bring to fruition. So the subway remains abandoned…and totally alluring!

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Unfortunately, cameras were not allowed on the tour, so I don’t have any personal pictures to share, but the experience was just awesome and the memories will last a lifetime! We entered through the boarded up and police guarded Race Street station on the corner of Race St. and Central Parkway downtown. It was pitch black in there save for the beams of our flashlights. But they placed a few candles along the edges of the platforms on either side so nobody would fall off, which gave it a very Phantom of the Opera look, which I greatly appreciated. Our docents were very knowledgeable and shared a lot of great information with us as we walked down the oak planks laid as per-cursors to tracks in the tunnels. We crossed “Lake Cincinnati” because the tunnels are no longer completely waterproof. And at one point we all turned our flashlights off and stood perfectly silent in the blackness for a moment – it was eerie and powerful all at once. How often do you get to experience such deafening silence, in a subway tunnel no less? Such a rich history our city has! If you ever have the opportunity to do the tour, it’s worth it. Sure, it’s just an empty old subway, but experiencing something so integral to the history of such an amazing city and standing where so few other people will ever get stand is really something special.

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After the tour we walked over to Findlay Market, Ohio’s oldest continually operated public market in the depths of the historic Over-the-Rhine neighborhood downtown. This is another Cincinnati landmark I’ve been aching to visit for well over a year. I would liken it to Seattle’s Pike’s Market. We walked around for several hours perusing the spices, fruits, veggies, meats, cheeses, pastries, plants, restaurants and more. It was a perfectly gorgeous day out – sunny and 75° with a light breeze, so it was wonderfully relaxing, enjoyable, and surprisingly not too crowded.

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While at Findlay, I ordered a Banh Mi Thit Nuong Vietnamese sandwich from Pho Lang Thang, which was phenomenally flavorful and well worth the eight months I’ve been waiting to try it, and washed it down with a scoop of creamy sea salt caramel ice cream from Dojo Gelato. Dojo’s thai mango with spicy chili pepper ice cream and lemon rosemary sorbet were also to die for. We walked out of Findlay Market with treasure – 3 lbs. of crunchy green beans from one of the farmer’s tables and a pound of thick ruby red stalks of fresh rhubarb to take home.

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Despite our aching feet from all that walking, we had to spend an hour exploring Eden Park, which surrounds Mt. Adams, because it was just too beautiful outside to pass up the opportunity. Eden Park was named because it was listed as one of the top ten possible locations on Earth, according to Catholic and Protestant clergy of the 1900s, for where the Garden of Eden could have been. We walked around Mirror Lake, strolled the shaded paths, tried to identify flowers and various berries on trees, admired the city from the top of scenic overlooks, dashed across grassy meadows and down hills, and climbed up and down the remains of an old rock wall. In addition to boasting miles and miles of gorgeous, Eden Park is also home to some lovely Mt. Adams homes, the Cincinnati Art Museum, and Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park. We loved everything we discovered! The pictures don’t even do it justice, and Mirror Lake is simply stunning.

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Every November Eden Park also hosts Balluminaria, where dozens of hot air balloons are glowed up in the night sky for the evening….which I must attend this year!

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After exploring some of the coolest sights in Cincinnati until our feet were throbbing, we thought it best to head home, play a few rounds of our favorite lawn game Washers in the backyard, enjoy a homemade meal of slow cooker chicken veggie Parmesan, and throw in a movie.

It was a deliriously perfect day.

Oh, and if you were wondering what became of that fresh rhubarb from Findlay Market…

A fresh pie might be something along the lines of what happened to it. My insanely delicious top secret recipe fresh strawberry rhubarb pie was ready to make an appearance – welcome back summer!

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Well Suited

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Summer’s fast approaching, and I think one-piece suits are going to be the star of the show this year. I also think I’ve officially reached that age in my life where sassy, stylish one-pieces win over the skin-bearing bikinis of my high school and college years. It also helps that one-pieces have, thankfully, gotten significantly more inspired and significantly less matronly in the past five years. Plus, I kind of just don’t feel comfortable hitting the waters of Blue Lake in a skimpy two-piece whilst surrounded by hordes of 9th graders. Here are my top picks this season. Now, if only they were more affordable because, let’s be real, you must be out of your tree to think $198 for a swatch of spandex is wise.

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There’s a million more out there…enjoy the options! Let me know if you find any cute contenders.


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All These Wonders and it’s Only Wednesday

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My computer’s still vacationing at Apple, but I thought I’d steal away on Ted’s computer (which is still limping along, remarkably, at the moment) to take a moment to share some of the things that are making me happiest this week! A little dose of sunshine never does any harm.

1. I’m eagerly anticipating an actual, real, live, WEEKEND OFF. I haven’t had a Saturday off in….months? In fact, I don’t even know when my last free Saturday was. And the last day I had two consecutive days off in a row was….????? And it’s my first day off, where I don’t have to do work of any kind – for any of my jobs, in over three weeks. Ted and I have a magnificent day of awesomeness planned. More on that later!

2. I smoked two auditions this week. As always, live theatre is an unpredictable business, so something may or may not come of it, but regardless of the outcome, it’s nice to be getting myself back out there and to feel good about it!

3. We caught Maverick out of her cave – that sneaky little cray! We were graced with the presence of five whole minutes of Maverick, in the flesh, strolling about her tank this morning! This is big. Girlfriend’s been feeling under the weather lately, first with the tank cycling fiasco and then with the dud craybie eggs and resulting nasty fungal infection, so she’s been camped out under her rock for the past three to five weeks. We know she must come out sometimes, likely at night when we’re asleep, but it was wonderful beyond words to really get to see her, all of her, up and at ’em and clambering laps around her plants again. She’s eating much better too. She’s just so cool!

4. Last night I had a delicious gourmet chocolate chunk cookie and Ted made me mac n’ cheese for dinner so I didn’t have to cook. He makes a mean boxed Kraft mac n’ cheese – magic touch? It was perfection. It’s the little things in life.

5. Lots of great opportunities have presented themselves lately! Doing my darndest to take advantage of them and hoping for some great things and good changes in the future. Fingers crossed.

6. Getting excited for the summer – I think it’s going to be a really fun one, for many reasons – the summer jobs I’m booking, the personal summer fun bucket list I’m compiling, and more. The more research I do and the more things that get scheduled, the more excited I get! Stay tuned for more on that as well.

7. We have a roof over our head, food on our table, jobs to go to, vehicles to get us there, good health, each other, a sweet cray, and great family and friends. Boy, are we ever lucky!

The husband of one of Ted’s work friends had a heart attack last night. While, thankfully, he’s expected to be okay, it really puts life into perspective. It’s been a busy few weeks, with lots of planning, and big decisions and opportunities, and fears and stresses, and that can get overwhelming and consuming. But really, life is pretty great because, as you can see from bullet #7, we’ve got all that we need to be happy in this life.

What are you happy about this week?

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