Perfection Personified

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Sunday was one of my two prized days off in June. It was completely marvelous.

We slept in, hit up Panera for a leisurely breakfast, ran a few errands over at Kenwood Towne Center, and then went to the Guardian Angels parish festival. Since moving to Ohio, I’ve learned that church festivals are a whole different ball game in the midwest than in Texas. There’s carnival rides and games and food and live music and auctions and gambling and eating contests and beer. They’re fun. We roamed about, soaking in the attractions, played a few games (the duck races are my favorite!) and I filled up on an order of two of my most favorite fat kid eats – jalapeno poppers and a snow cone! I only get them a few times a year, but they’re worth the wait because they remind me of Texas (and they’re unbelievably delicious!) Ted and I each bought a duck to race. I selected number 26 and Ted chose number 6. Neither of our ducks won the jackpot, but when the race was over, we found our two ducks, floating side by side at the very end of the duck line-up, promptly in last place: together. We may not always win, but at least we never leave the other one behind – even in duck races.

After the festival we picked up some cherries, strawberries and peaches to hold us over for the next week and then we took my Buick over to the DIY carwash and gave it the internal and external washing, vacuuming, and polishing of its life. Of course, it promptly began to rain 12 hours later. But the car was in perfect shape for the drive-in that night! We looove the drive-in. The weather was gorgeous, so we took the shiny Buick out for a spin and went to go see Madagascar 3 and What to Expect When You’re Expecting, the former of which was hilarious and the later of which was entertaining but I’d only recommend seeing it if you actually have kids yourself. But the night was perfect! We ordered classic old-fashioned cheeseburgers, which totally hit the spot, and then we snacked on peaches, peanuts, lemonade, and ice cream cones (yeeeeeah, it was fatty day) while we sat outside, surrounded by a cool summer breeze and glowing fireflies and enjoyed our movies until 1 a.m. Between movies we ran around the parking lot and played, like five year olds. It was totally awesome.

A perfect day off!

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Le Craybs

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I know I say this every time but the craybies are getting SO BIG. Like, insanely, ridiculously BIG.  They pick at each other and chase each other around the tank and zoom up and down the plants and leap from plant to plant like trapeze artists and zip from one end of the tank to the other and climb the filter and air hoses and shovel in food like we’ll never feed them again. They, literally, grow overnight when they molt and we wake up in the morning and we’re like “HOLY CRAP BELUGA! YOU’RE HUGE.” They’re so big we’ve upgraded them from fish flakes to veggie rounds, just like their mamma used to eat. And they, apparently, love them just as much as she did. In no time they’ll be chowing down on frozen peas and shrimp! We threw in the first small piece yesterday morning to see what would happen and one of the bigger crays zipped around from out of nowhere, grabbed it, held it to him like we were handing out diamonds, and dragged it under the rock with him (for safe keeping) so he could eat the whole thing and not have to share it with his brothers and sisters. Typical siblings. They all do that, given the opportunity. They only look sweet and innocent.

I’m so happy they’re thriving, and we installed a live streaming video camera beside their tank so we can watch them during the day while we’re working (yes, we know we’re weird), but we’re also a little sad because we know it’ll only be another week or so before they’ll be too big to all live peacefully together and we’ll have to find some of them a new home. But how can we possibly choose who to keep and who not to?

Anyone want a blue cray?

(The answer, obviously, is YES.)

But they’re so great! Really, really great. And so fun to watch. They may just be 15 craybies, but they’re starting to develop such distinct personalities already. Some are snippy, some are swimmers, some are bosses, others are push-overs.

They’ll do silly things like sneak up on each other when one is preoccupied devouring a veggie round and suddenly clamp down on their tail with those big old claws, startling the poor guy and sending him flying across the tank in shock….then the snipper will proceed to steal the veggie round and eat it for himself. Absolute sneaks, I tell you!

Love them!

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…And the Living is Easy?

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So much has been happening lately!

I think it’s a common myth that things are slow and calm in the summertime. That when school lets out and work slows down that there’s lots of lots of spare time. Time for naps in the sunlight beneath a whirling ceiling fan. Time for picnics in the park, long scenic drives in the sunset, and margaritas and queso with the girlfriends. Time for mojitos in the shade, sundresses and sunglasses, festivals, picking up a pile of great reads from the library, bubble baths, beaches, long walks with ice cream cones, leisurely vacations, biking, dining out, and lazy days spent poolside or exploring with friends and family- something relaxing, something adventurous, something freeing. Time, time, time, and no schedule to keep.

Well, that’s a load of crap.

I’m at least twice as busy as usual since June showed up. I think I kind of knew this would happen all along, but I also think I was kind of delusional and thought, “eh…maybe things won’t be as crazy as they seem.” Delusional. I have a total of two whole days off the entire month of June. Some of my work days are 14 hours long and others will only be 5 hours. But, very thankfully, I am busy with work that I love and work that I’ve been aching to do and work that is fun and work that matters to me: ASMing Next to Normal at ETC, earning my last four equity points so I can at last turn equity (a lifelong dream of mine!), prepping lesson plans and choreography for 6-weeks of camp, applying for theatre jobs, beefing up my audition repertory, and building my website. It’s good work, and it’s important work, and it’s work I am so happy and lucky to be doing this summer. I’m actually being paid pretty decently to work in professional theatre, I’m meeting some huge career aspirations, and I’m going to get to frolic on the shoes of Lake Michigan for 6 weeks – IF I can just get through the massive quantity of WORK, WORK, WORK that is June!

In fact, this summer really did turn out to be my ‘best case scenario’ summer. Life is good. Really good.

My entire week so far has consisted of full day rehearsals, all day everyday, for Next to Normal, which is so fun and is going just swimmingly. Saturday and today we are in 10-out-0f-12 tech rehearsals (so, 14 hour workdays both days) but the work is so gratifying that I don’t even feel the exhaustion.

On Friday night we did take a little “easy living” break after a wonderfully productive rehearsal. Ted and I walked downtown. It was beautiful out and we stopped at a street cart for dinner. Hot dogs. There’s nothing quite as tasty as a good old ball park-style hot dog on a summer evening. We enjoyed our hot dogs as we walked, stopping at a live jazz club to split a beer and enjoy some jazz and fresh air before catching the opening night production of The Complete Works of William Shakespeare (Abridged) at Cincinnati Shakespeare with free comps from a friend, who designed lighting for the show. As all Complete Works shows are, it was hilarious and we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. After we got home we walked over to the United Dairy Farmers store, which is a short walk from our home, to pick up some hand-dipped ice cream in waffle cones and eat them while we strolled home in the moonlight. It was a really, really great night. I’ll have a few great escapes like this in June, a few more in July, and then a few in mid and late August – and though they are seemingly few and far between, they are truly worth the wait!

Happy rainy Monday, Cincy. Enjoy!

 

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Swim Winners 2012

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Over the past few weeks I took the challenge of embarking on an epic hunt for the perfect one-piece maillot swimsuit that is stylish, bold, and sassy, yet somewhat modest, without being matronly or dipping too heavily into my meager accumulation of funds.

Now you understand what I mean by “epic hunt.”

Some of my favorites, style and color wise, came from fancy designers and were priced at upwards up $250 – which, let’s be honest, is just asinine for 1/4 yard of spandex, no matter how adorable it is. And the more reasonably priced maillots just didn’t fit as nicely, weren’t made as well, or weren’t quite unique enough for my tastes. Fortunately, women’s one-pieces have gotten much more attractive and appealing these past few years, so the options weren’t quite as horrifying, nor the search quite as harrowing, as I’d imagined. One-pieces are back in style! I still like tasteful and playful bikinis when among family and friends, but since I’ll be working and potentially splashing in the lake/pool with high schoolers at a professional fine arts camp this summer, I’d feel more comfortable and appropriate donning a one-piece around them instead.

In swimwear, I prefer brighter color choices, unique silhouettes, a standout detail or two, and a fun, slightly skin bearing back (it is a swimsuit after all!). So, throughout the past month I ordered over a dozen of my top pick swimsuits to try on (and return!) and researched hundreds more online.

Below are the winners for this season’s maillots. They were selected based on quality, fit, price, color, style, and general attractiveness.

First place:

Caspian Paisley Bandeau Tank from J. Crew, $98.

This suit was inspired by Moroccan tiles, which I think is lovely and refreshing, and the colors are much greener and more vibrant in person (they also complement a green-eyed, gold-complexioned, honey brunette perfectly… ;-), which, obviously, is one of the reasons why I chose the suit). Though I think the colors of are universally flattering and would look good on pretty much anyone. The pattern is unexpected and fun. The suit is slimming, figure flattering, comfortable, supportive, high quality, modest yet still very attractive, practical for swimming, sunning, and water sports, and worth its price tag. Plus J. Crew offers free shipping and free returns on all swimwear  for risk free try-ons – a big bonus in my book. Unfortunately, I don’t think the model does this swimsuit justice, as it looked a million times more awesome than the picture displays and it is a great option for curvy ladies. A definite winner because it scored an “A” in all categories.

Second Place:

St. Augustine maillot by Minkpink for Anthropologie, $106.

This suit is AMAZING! I will be the first to admit that the pattern is a little funky, and you look at the suit and kind of think “Huh…this could either be really cute or really, really ugly.” I went back and forth on it while browsing online, trying to decide if it would be beautiful or hideous, but I eventually bought it to try on because I couldn’t stop thinking about it! Something about it really struck a chord with me. It’s like a piece of fine art work. Luckily, it’s really cute…much cuter in person! It’s a beautiful seafoam color with pretty, rich detailing and, again, the coloring looks phenomenal on someone with golden undertones and brown hair. The back of the suit is really special and eye-catching. It marches right on the fine line between modest and sexy. It fits well, covers everything it should while still being attractive, is comfortable, and quite figure-flattering. This was absolutely my first choice suit, until I read the label and saw the words “avoid contact with sunscreen and other lotions.” Cue screeching halt on my perfect swimsuit daydream. Please forgive me, but it’s a SWIMSUIT. A $106 swimsuit (now on sale for $60!) and you want me to keep it away from sunscreen? If I didn’t love it so much, I would return it immediately for being so stupidly impractical. And, of course, now I’m curious – what is sunscreen going to do to it? Bleach it, erode it, or do absolutely nothing and it’s just one of those silly warnings they have to plaster on stuff nowadays? Regardless, this suit is completely worth a try-on, especially at the sale price, because it really is completely stunning in person.

Third Place:

Jersey Lomellina Asymmetrical Blouson Tank for J. Crew, $118.

This swimsuit is great if you’re looking for something a little different. It comes in four earthy colors, is incredibly comfortable, and the fitted-on-the-bottom, loose-up-top, one-shoulder look is both modern, classic, and extremely flattering! The material is so soft and silky! The support of the suit, as well as its quality, is just excellent. In general, I found that all of J. crew’s suits (and I ordered at least 6 of them to try on – both one-pieces and bikinis) are really well made and have a wonderful fit. If I had to choose just one brand of swimwear based on style and quality this summer, I’d steer you toward J. Crew. They have a huge variety of bikinis, one-pieces, solids, patterns, earthy tones, and brights.

Honorable Mention:

Athleta Shirrendipity One-Piece, $69.

This one-piece comes in a slew of great solid colors – everything from brights to earth tones – and is a real bargain. I loved the understated simplicity of a solid colored suit with an eye-catching back and a great silhouette that speaks for itself. It can be sporty (Athleta is a fitness brand), playful, or sexy. It’s fully lined as well, which is nice. What impressed me the most was how high quality this suit was. It was full of all these genius little details that you’ve secretly always wished swimsuit designers would include in their designs. Though J. Crew suits are a close second, this suit was the most well made. However, the V-neck was a little plungier than I was looking for (not inappropriate, just not what I was after this summer) and the torso runs a little short on it, even for someone who’s only 5’4″ with a short torso to begin with. Luckily, it is available in tall sizes, so don’t let that stop you from ordering. And the bright green is super fun!

Honorable Mention:

Lauren by Ralph Lauren Kashmir Paisley One-Piece, $98.

This maillot is great! The colors are brighter in person, but I found the one-shoulder, lower-back, cross strap, front ruching, and paisley print to be really flattering and unique looking. It was comfortable to wear, fits well, and is lined. I do think the suit would do a little better on someone slightly taller than 5’4″ because the strap is not adjustable and was just a little loose on me. But if you’re looking for something playful with a trendy silhouette, I’d point you in this direction.

What do you think?

Happy Swimming!

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Findlay Spoils

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Ted brought home 6 lbs of green beans from the Findlay farmers market on Saturday. 6 lbs, for the two of us. They take up half a shelf in our fridge. 6 lbs might have been a little overkill, but they’re so good! Plus, they make for tasty snacking and Ted devours them by the handful.

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He also, wisely, came home with a pound of cherries. The first of the year. But certainly not the last. I am happy to welcome the return of cherry season.

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Then there’s the porkchops. What beefcakes! They’re getting so insanely big. There’s one in particular we call Beluga. It’s at least twice the size of the others and it’s blue coloring is really starting to come through. They’re all too big to get sucked into the filter now, thankfully, and they can scale the plants like little pros. They demand to be fed at least 3 times a day (porkchops!) and they all stand on the slate rock like its CrayFest 2012 until they are. They’re speedy and spastic swimmers too. Their water conditions are finally perfect, and we still have 15 that we can count. So, something must be going right! They’re so fun!

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Rehearsals start today, so my postings may be sparse and rare for the next two weeks while I earn those last four equity points(!!!), but I’ll try not to disappear entirely! Also, the season premieres of Hell’s Kitchen & Master Chef were last night – a joyful occasion indeed! HK cracks me up and brings a little spice to my summer. Anyone else positively crave risotto every time you see Chef Ramsey?

Happy Tuesday!

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June in Bloom

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So, lately:

– The craybies are growing! What porkchops. Absolute porkchops, those crays!

– I’m back in my show blacks for Cincy Fringe and it feels so good! I’ve missed this.

– I make a mean mojito. I have or may not have bought a mint plant for the express purpose of mojito-making. Why on earth did I ever pay for one at a restaurant?

– With full-day rehearsals and shows for the encore run of Next to Normal and working my second job and my summer bucket list and TONS of camp prep and dance classes and soaking in time with the hubby and crays before I’m off to camp, the next few weeks aren’t about to get any less busy.

– With all this work I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed lately, so the thought of shimmying into my cute new suit, splashing in the pool, picnicking in the park, sleeping in, going out, mini-vacaying, and playing around sounds really, really incredible. I’ve got summer on the brain.

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Craybies

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There’s a little secret we’ve been keeping.

When we lost Maverick two weeks ago, she was carrying eggs. All the experts told us they were infertile duds, likely laid out of stress from poor water conditions due to cycling or a common per-cursor to her biannual spring molt.

I didn’t believe them.

Crays can technically be pregnant for 6-9 months before actually releasing their eggs. Plus, the eggs were black, and black eggs means fertile eggs. And Mav was continuing to hold on to them beneath her tail, protecting them with mamma instincts, despite the fungus that engulfed them.

And I’m just an incredibly, intensely hopeful person.

But then, as often happens with mamma crays, her developing eggs caught a fungal infection that encased them in a cocoon of cotton candy pink fluff and killed the eggs.  We added anti-fungal meds to her water. Meds that were supposed to be safe for her tank’s biological filter…but apparently aren’t. They jump started another cycle, and between the second bout of ammonia spiking and a case of shell rot that she caught early on, Mav was unable to molt her shell and likely died from a combination of those few factors. We assumed the fungus, while not lethal to her, had killed off all of her supposedly dud eggs.

The morning after she died we still couldn’t bring ourselves to remove her from the tank, because the thought of her tank being empty was simply heartbreaking and, well, just in case she was sleeping or still mid-molt (incredibly, intensely hopeful, remember?). Ted just happened to be looking at her, resting so still and peacefully beneath her favorite rock, when he saw the slightest bit of movement, and then a small patch of remaining black eggs closest to her body, hidden underneath her tail and untouched by the fungus, burst. And over a dozen tiny, microscopic little baby crays floated down. So small you could hardly see them without a magnifying glass. So small that eight of them could have fit onto one piece of gravel. So tiny that they disappeared instantly and you wondered if you were just imagining them. So small, yet so perfectly formed, just like their mamma.

And while we miss girlfriend a whole awful lot, these little guys are nothing if not absolute miracles.

A little hope can go a long way.

Four!

We were told not to get our hopes up. Up to 400 can be born at once, with perhaps only a dozen or so surviving. Craybies have to survive a molt within the first 24-hours of hatching, grow a hard shell, not eat or pick one another to death, make it the first 48-hours without their mamma (they should have mamma for the first 2 days before mamma gets moved to another tank, but ours weren’t so lucky), and survive the high ammonia and nitrite levels that were still plaguing our tank from the second nitrogen cycle the meds started.

Given that all the odds were against them, we’ve tried not to get our hopes up, especially since sweet Mav is still fresh on our minds. But, honestly, we are outright amazed at their strength. But of course, they take after Mav – the bravest, strongest little cray ever. They’re little but resilient! And we’re so happy to still have little pieces of Maverick that remind us of her every single day.

I wasn’t going to write about them just yet, just in case they didn’t make it. But as Ted said, “Why not? They’re a part of our life. And the blog documents our life – the good things and the not so good things.” And he’s right (he usually is). These little ones are definitely a good thing, so we should celebrate and share them.

We never really got an exact count on how many of them they were. It was impossible. They are, after all, smaller than a mustard seed and insanely difficult to locate in a tank full of gravel – especially when they start out microscopically tiny and see-through – so light blue that they’re practically translucent with just a touch of brown (their deep blue color won’t develop for a while yet). On day 2 we counted 15 of them. There could have been more, who knows.

Last night we counted 13 out and about. And they’re growing! It’s hard to believe, but they really are getting bigger by the day. Take it from the people who spend 2 hours a day with their noses plastered against a fish tank, staring at baby crays.

And man, are they fun to watch! They swim backwards, flail their long antennas and skinny legs, scale strings of dust collecting alongside the walls of the tank, hide in the plants spying and playing and climbing, clamor over and on top of each other, perch atop the rock like little kings, and for a while there we were still are plucking them out of the filter at least once a day en route to escape…and because they’re so tiny that the water currents just blow them around the tank like leaves in the wind – which is kind of hilarious to watch but also kind of pitiful and “awwww!” inducing too. The water current causes them to do all kinds of neat flips before they get sucked into the filter, which consequently means they require daily rescuing. Troublemakers though they may be, they sure are cute!

Yup, they’re every inch (all 1/4″ of them) of Mav’s babies – strong willed and sneaky – just like Mav. Their mamma would be SO proud.

We are proud.

World, meet craybies! Names forthcoming :-)

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Memorial Monday

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Run Around

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This has been one BUSY week for me! I’ve been updating cover letters and resumes and applying for jobs like a fiend, designing a 25-page study guide/teacher toolkit for the 2012-2013 education programs for the dance company I freelance with, filling out a book worth of contracts and miscellaneous paperwork in preparation for my summer gig, scheduling out my calendar for all my show, family/vacation, and job commitments for the summer, starting to plan for the choreography and scenes I’ll be directing, thinking about the selection of songs/monologues/scenes I’ll be performing and, of course, still working three jobs.

But the opportunities that are, opportunely, starting to crop up are super exciting, we’ve been getting free meals that I don’t have to cook every single night this week at the on-campus dining halls (some of Ted’s students trying desperately to get rid of hundreds of unused meal trade swipes before they expire next week….oh, college! I remember those days well. And now I am thankful to be on the receiving end of them.), and I have Monday off….a precious day off with which to go biking and swim in the pool and sleep in and sample tasty delicacies at the annual Taste of Cincinnati Festival!

I hope to have a more inspired and less mind-numbingly dull post for you in the coming days.

Meanwhile, what are your big plans for the three-day weekend?

P.S. The high tomorrow is supposed to be 100! In Cincinnati…in May. Texas, is that you? I don’t remember clicking my heels three times and chanting “there’s no place like home.”

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Thanks and a Mission

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I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has called, sent a text, email, or message with condolences for Mav. While it’s been a rough week and we still feel sadness often, we are blessed to have many happy, funny memories with Maverick and wonderful family who have brightened our day just by reaching out to say something kind. We really, really appreciate the thoughtfulness and love. Whether it’s a dog or cat you’ve had for 12 years or a crayfish you’ve had for two months, losing a pet is never easy. Period. So, thank you all for reaching out with your support.

Also, if you send us a package of any kind in the future that is too large to fit into a small mailbox, please send it direct (to be left for pickup at the post office) or certified (requiring a signature). In the past two months we’ve had two packages disappear off our doorstep after being confirmed as delivered by the carriers. Needless to say, we’re starting to get suspicious of drive-by snatchers and/or our utterly and unbelievably obnoxious and sketchy hooligan neighbors…and also a little tired of filing claims and opening investigations and having to get all our purchases reshipped to us (thank goodness for insurance). So, if you’re in the habit of mailing us boxes, please remember to send them direct or certified.

That being said, and on a much brighter note, summer has officially rolled into Cincinnati and we’re starting to take advantage of it. The kids are winding down at school, stores are stocked with shorts and swimwear, watermelons, peaches, strawberries and rhubarb are cropping up at the farmers market, two of my four jobs will expire in less than two weeks (leaving me with much more free time and much less income), temperatures have started climbing to the mid-80s, and I saw my first firefly two nights ago – the most telltale sign of all!

I’ll be gone for six weeks this summer teaching acting and musical theatre at a professional fine arts summer camp up in Michigan by the lake (Surprise! More to come on that later!), so that leaves Ted and I with about a month and a half to enjoy all the adventures on my “Summer 2012 Bucket List” together.

Yesterday Ted cleaned up our bikes and we went for a nice, long ride through the neighborhood and through the cemetery to see Mav. It was great to have the bikes out again…I’ve missed Carmela! And of course we already went on the Subway Tour, gallivanted around Eden Park, rode the pedal wagon on the Bikes & Barons tour, and picked up fresh green beans and rhubarb at Findlay Market.

Still on my bucket list for this summer are a remake of the fabulous Le Cordon Bleu Fruit Torte I made last summer, blueberry and blackberry picking at Rooster’s Farm again, more farmer’s market goodness, a cookout on our grill in the backyard, lawn games, catch fireflies in a mason jar, a day trip up to Columbus for the Zoo, Cosi Museum, and North Market, spend some quality time sunning and splashing at the pool, making lots of fresh and tasty summer recipes, a trip to the aquarium, catching a few late night double features at the drive-in, seeing a performance of the World Choir Games (which are being held in Cincinnati this year!), ziplining, bowling, a picnic in the park with lots of wine and cheese, taking the bikes out on the Bass Island Trail for a day trip, getting new headshots, the American Sign Museum, a Reds baseball game, canoeing, the church carnival, some 4th of July fireworks, the rest of the Cincy Haus American Legacy Tours (Haunted Cincinnati, Rookwood Pottery & Wine, Newport Gangster, and Cincinnati Civil War), and some amusement park and roller coaster fun at Coney Island, Kings Island, and either Cedar Point or Michigan Adventure.

That’s A LOT of fun to cram into 45 days when you still gotta work and pack and prep lesson plans and choreography and be poor because you work on a theatre salary. But it can be done…and it will be done!

Operation Summer 2012 Bucket List….GO!

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